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My first "Daygame" in Birmingham -
17-12-2016, 07:31 PM
Hi everyone,
I've been in the UK only 3 months. I'm living and studying in Birmingham. I've decided to start pick-up in Birmingham, because of several reasons: 1. I am new in the UK and need to enhance my social circle and personal networking. 2. Be more confident with female. 3. Find GF or sexual partner. Most of my groupmate girls either already have BF or they've put me in the friend zone or not attractive. Today I went to the City Center. But I was shivering inside. I was very afraid to approach the girl. Abot 1 hour I was struggling with myself. Hopefully, I spoke with 2 Pakistani volunteer girls, who were passing over leaflets and this helped me to calm down. Finally, I saw one girl and I've decided to appoach her. I overcame my fear came closer and said "Hello, I just want to say that you are very beautiful and lovely". But, she said "thanks" and went away. This crushed all my motivation for today and I went back home. But I will never give up. I will go to meet girls again and again. I would be happy, if I find a wingman in Birmingham or West Midlands. I also need an advice from experienced daygamers. So, I'm looking forward to your response. p.s. I have a srong Georgian accent, and how can it effect on results?     
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18-12-2016, 06:01 PM
Second day,
I went to the city centre. In order to bit warm-up, I've started to come to girls and tell them "Hi. You are very beautiful. Have I nice day". I've approached to 5 girls/groups of girls, but the last one rejected me very hard and crushed my positive mood for today. SO, I went back home. Anyway, I'll never give up and I'll continue to play
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19-12-2016, 03:23 PM
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19-12-2016, 06:21 PM
Tony77
Thanks a lot for the useful advice. Hopefully, I by this forum I found some local daygamers and I hope I will improve myself in this sphere. Happy Christmas to you.
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19-12-2016, 06:24 PM
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20-12-2016, 05:33 PM
Day number 3
The worse day. Went alone to the shopping mall. Accept of sweet conversation with 2 volunteers, I didn't manage to make an approach. I was very close to do it 5 times but in the last secund something stopped me. I will never surrender and I will try and try again until I get a real result.
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20-12-2016, 09:56 PM
Hi mate,
try to "warm up" before doing serious approaches when you start often you're not in the mood to be sociable. I call the first part of day game "getting into state" What I do is I take things in stages: 1) indirect, ask ppl for directions or the time - doesn't have to be a girl 2) do what I call the pussy approach - say something, usually funny then eject. for example I like to walk up and say "hi can I ask something? - pause, she turns round - will you marry me?/will you go on a date with me?/can I have your number? with a cheeky grin, usually you get them to smile/laugh then walk away and do your next approach once you've done 3-4 of these it really gets you into a positive mood and you feel the anxiety vanish. Girls sense this confidence in your next approaches and they open up more to your approach as a result. Only after this do I attempt serious approaches where I stop her, complement her then start a conversation. try the above next time you go out, I'm sure you'll get much better results
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21-12-2016, 08:22 PM
Day 4
Still no approaches because of strong fear. I'll try tomorrow again and hope to overcome a fear
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22-12-2016, 12:01 AM
One thing I read for guys struggling with 'approaching' is to just get used to walking close to the women they find attractive. Not in a awkward way but just to get used to taking action.
Perhaps tomorrow as soon as you see a cute girl just walk towards her (within arms length). Try and stay there for 30 seconds or so. Well done for taking action though.
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