Help an idiot with serious oneitis (convo inc)

[NoobToGame25]

New here.
I'm 25, fairly attractive, had a few long term relationships with some one offs on the side, kill count of 30.
Got chatting to this girl on OKC. About a weeks worth of irregular chat before we meet. I go to hers, we go for pizza, have a few drinks and really hit it off, probably one of the best dates i've had. Her mind is just like mine except a little more energetic, but have very similar interests.
One thing leads to another and i stay over, she falls asleep, but in the morning i make her cum with my fingers pretty quickly. She says no guy has done that before and that I can make her cum quicker than she can herself.
She also sorts me out a few times but denies sex. I leave and she says she wants to see me again.

This is where i go full AFC. I'm just going to copy/paste the convo for you all to laugh at and roast me. Basically Sunday night (I met her Friday night) was UFC 205 So i got a bit drunk watching McGregor destroy Alvarez. Normally i'd stay aloof and chill but when ive drank, i just forgot how to game and went beta. This is how it went up until today. Prior to this conversation she heavily suggested meeting up a second time but cut that bit out as its nothing to worry about:

her
oh arrogance
always a strong trait
me
most cave in and go submissive to arrogance, one the other day didnt and got all butt hurt over it, said because shes Italian 'we dont stand for that'. Didnt realise your nationality dictated your personality. She was only a 5/10
still 1/10 more than you but whatever
her
It must have hurt your feelings when someone didn't allow you to get what you want
me
Dont bring that up (i was refering to her denying sex)
her
I'm not - I'm bringing up the fact she didn't go submissive to arrogance
and it obviously annoyed you
me
there was more to it but cba to explain. You know im not THAT arrogant
her
And you know I'm just trolling you
me
your trolling is really dry, mine is more outrageous so its easier to detect
i'll show my hand and admit its what makes me attracted to you
her
The trolling or the dryness
me
both
her
Thanks ��
me
enjoy your ego orgasm, courtesy of me, as usual
her
I will
and I am
makes a change to you telling me I'm on the spectrum
me
You likely are, but that doesn't mean you're undateable
her
I didn't say that
Just telling someone they're on the spectrum won't give them an ego orgasm
me
I did an online test which told me i could be
you did say my mannerisms are odd, ive yet to hear an example though
me
Have i upset you?
her
don't flatter yourself! I'm just watching a film!
me
I dont know when i get a bit too much, im rusty
her
oh pipe down! I'm just busy
me
I'm busy too, building a dating site where people have to give tickles and both share their cum. I'll call it cumtickle dating
Friday (the friday after the above convo which was sunday. I had unfriended her because she hadnt contacted me at all despite being online a lot)
her
de-friended? Ouch!
Is it because I didn't have sex with you!?
me
I figured you had lost interest after my drunken shit talk on Sunday. On the plus side I've stayed sober for 3 days
her
I've been busy. . . but the de-friending was a bit of a low blow
me
You'll live!
her
You will too :P see you around
me
Haha, you're cold
But next time be upfront, the I'm busy excuse doesn't fly for a Facebook addict
her
That's your issue! I was genuinely looking forwards to seeing you again as I have been stupidly busy!
me
What times your break
me (today)
I legit thought you lost interest because I went a bit daft when drunk. I do want to see you again, I miss the rabbit.
She read it and didnt respond

Basically after the meet I didnt contact her unless she did first, which she did. Which was when the drunken idiot conversation at the start began. I figured she had lost interest after that convo as she didnt contact me at all throughout the week from Sunday to Friday so i unfriended her on Friday (she hardly uses her phone at all, just facebook message).

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I know its probably fucked now but still, help me out.
I have other options on the go, arguably equally attractive but I really like this girl. My game prior to meeting was good, on the date was good (loads of kino) I dont struggle at all IRL, but when ive had a drink i just relapse to a beta, now im mad as fuck with myself for fucking it up big time.