Can u recommend any free material e.g. youtube stuff for newbies?
 

Hi

Can anyone recommend and free material e.g. youtube clips for newbies?

I ready a few things about 5 years ago (e.g. Neil Strauss) but am very rusty all this. I just need something that covers the basics well.

J

Real Social Dynamics is where it is at dude check out Tyler's Youtube channel as a start, but my advice do not take any guru's advice as gospel. Get a canned direct opener, that is an opener that conveys your intentions i.e. "Hey, you look like the kind of girl I would get along with, what's your name?" etc or something more direct "Hey, I had to come over and say you look fucking/really hot today, what are you up to anyway?" and actually go out and "test" it in the field (that is, in real life). This will initially come off as incongruent and will be scary as hell, but is a surefire way to wake you up out of a daze and get you learning. Learning theory can fuck you up in a big way as you get more and more inside your head and analytical.

The next step is to get a wing who's sole job is to push you to approach (and vice versa) i.e. they do not bring negativity to the table and pump up instead of bring down your "state": (that is how you feel in the moment).

Make a minimum commitment to yourself of how many approaches you will do per week. That is how you get good fast.

Wish you luck in you gaming adventures :)

PM me if you need more info.