Hard to get sex from wife

[johnneal]

I have been married for 5 years. The problem is, it is very difficult for my wife to agree to have sex with me.

The frequency that I have sex with her is the most once every 4 months... but that is not fixed. The frequency could be less frequent.

Any ideas how I can have sex with my wife, lets say, once a week?

Most of the time, when I asked for sex with her, she will decline, saying that she is too tired.

We also sleep in a seperate room, because she can't sleep with the air conditioned turned on. And I can't sleep with the air cond turned off.

Is there anything that I can do?

Please feel free to share your opinion.

[drop collision]

I don't want to be rude, but! there is three reasons for your situation; She is cheating on you, she has vaginitis or you don't turn her on.


You should stop asking for sex and start giving her a massage instead. It's a classic way to turn a woman on. there is two different resources for this: 1, Steve P and his white tiger tantra programme at "the school of steve P" web site. I have this and it's cool. and 2, "missJaiya" web site. she's not as cool as Steve P but it's still a very good set of programmes.


What I will say is do not go any where near "David Shade". He is a idiot and no one likes him. That guy is so full of crap it's unbelievable. There is a lot of con artists in the pick up community, who chat crap and charge you for it. And David Shade is one of them.


I don't want to piss on your life, but! your only options are; give her a massage until you turn her on and make her wet. Or get a good divorce lawyer.

[boybryant]

Go on holiday for a month (alone), then come back. She might be more keen after

[Shahanshah]

You divorce her. You sleep in separate rooms and don't have sex. That's called a house share.

Also fuck her anyway, everyone knows it's not rape if it's your own wife

[J.Daniels]

Man, this is a real big issue to you, huh?

It must be, as you've posted it on both forums: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/...194252-60.html

As I told you on there:

Originally Posted by J.Daniels

Read this back. WHAT THE FUCK!? You're acting like she's doing you a favour by letting you touch her. She's your fucking wife.

I don't want to put paranoia in your head but either she isn't faithful, or she isn't attracted to you anymore. Maybe you're not showing up right in the marriage?

Hard to say without knowing 100% the true cause. I'm sure other guys can give good advice on this but I'd walk.

Lol, well, as you know... this just means "I don't want to have sex with you"

So the marriage died a long time ago and you're just roommates now that have the occasional fuck for the sake of doing it? You're not happy and you need to stop kidding yourself.

I know it's hard, but I think you should walk. I genuinely do. Why would you stay in a dead marriage? But then again this is a pickup forum, I'd say 0.5% of the guys here are happily married.

Please feel free to share your opinion.

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[CharmingStallion]

Honestly, I'd start talking to a divorce lawyer.

Originally Posted by johnneal

I have been married for 5 years. The problem is, it is very difficult for my wife to agree to have sex with me.

The frequency that I have sex with her is the most once every 4 months... but that is not fixed. The frequency could be less frequent.

Any ideas how I can have sex with my wife, lets say, once a week?

Most of the time, when I asked for sex with her, she will decline, saying that she is too tired.

We also sleep in a seperate room, because she can't sleep with the air conditioned turned on. And I can't sleep with the air cond turned off.

Is there anything that I can do?

Please feel free to share your opinion.