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Default Any shame in going clubbing solo? - 07-06-2015, 11:10 AM

Hi guys I've been working on my game with a few friends on night outs and during the day. All of a sudden I find that non of my friends are that into going out to clubs anymore and (for lack of better words) im too much of a pussy to hit the clubs alone incase I look weird, creepy and just like a loner.

Have any of you guys got any experience in going out to clubs solo and do you have any advice on how to not look like a weirdo?

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Default 07-06-2015, 02:04 PM

Hi, I heard about PUA and read "Game" and some other books on the subject just about 3 months ago, so I am a beginner.
Also I am 37, Polish ( that is not an asset when you talk to British girls) and I am neither rich nor good looking...And yet, before I ever even heard about GAME, I was going to the clubs alone, and have some successes with girls. As a matter of fact I am still usually going out by myself. When people ask me why am I alone, I am usually saying that I am just new to this area and wanted to meet new people, expand my social circle, and so on...Or, I will start with the story that I was in other clubs with the friends, but they have something important tomorrow and went home, and I decided to have some fun anyway. Actually any story will work, because it is not about what you say, but how you say it.

So, If I can do it, then you can do it too, as it is mostly your inner frame of mind that is important, your personality, confidence and so on...Sure, it is better to have a wingman, but believe you me, it is perfectly doable to to have success going on your own. You can try some self hypnosis and NLP techniques to boost your confidence.
Perhaps we can catch up on some weekend and go out together, hence the wingman problem will be solved.
Best of luck !
R.

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Default 07-06-2015, 10:58 PM

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Hi, I heard about PUA and read "Game" and some other books on the subject just about 3 months ago, so I am a beginner.
Also I am 37, Polish ( that is not an asset when you talk to British girls) and I am neither rich nor good looking...And yet, before I ever even heard about GAME, I was going to the clubs alone, and have some successes with girls. As a matter of fact I am still usually going out by myself. When people ask me why am I alone, I am usually saying that I am just new to this area and wanted to meet new people, expand my social circle, and so on...Or, I will start with the story that I was in other clubs with the friends, but they have something important tomorrow and went home, and I decided to have some fun anyway. Actually any story will work, because it is not about what you say, but how you say it.

So, If I can do it, then you can do it too, as it is mostly your inner frame of mind that is important, your personality, confidence and so on...Sure, it is better to have a wingman, but believe you me, it is perfectly doable to to have success going on your own. You can try some self hypnosis and NLP techniques to boost your confidence.
Perhaps we can catch up on some weekend and go out together, hence the wingman problem will be solved.
Best of luck !
R.
This shit is over the top.

In response to OP. I can't give you advice as I've never done it. Maybe message Stein. But in the end, it's you who's gonna have to do it, throw yourself in and give it a go.


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Default 30-06-2015, 06:00 PM

You're kind of in a club solo if a wing pulls/ or you lose your friends etc.
I've felt anxious as if I was in there on my own-especially if you're not flying with the approaches.
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