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20-02-2010, 07:08 AM
Hi guys,
When we were out last night, one of the guys asked me an interesting question which I didn't have an answer too. I go into sets very high energy usually. This isn't necessarily all conscious either - I've always been very energetic talking to girls. It helps, as they say, to bring the energy level of a set up when you enter it. However, the lad was asking about whether this remains true for older women. And the more I thought about it, the more his question seemed to make sense. I've opened older sets in the past in my typical high energy style, and not really got very far. Now I think about it, could this possibly be a case that to younger sets (say anyone below 30, and bearing in mind I'm 26), high energy makes you seem playful and fun, where as to older sets it makes you seem childish and slightly juvinile, highlighting your own youth, their own self-perceived lack of it, and thus possibly making an interaction more challenging? Obviously there are no black and whites here, but if you guys could suggest some of the shades of grey, I'd be very interested to see them.     
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20-02-2010, 08:41 AM
good question dude,
i am the same as you 26 allways high energy and ballbusting fun, i talk the same to a 30 as i do to an 18 everyone wants to feel the child within them, to get in touch with the youthfull self they have supressed from being in a responsable enviroment from the age of 16, there is a difference between acting imiture and acting like a man in touch with his inner child. or effortlessly; its constituent values are not achieved by instinct or magic or wishful thinking. Human beings must act in order to achieve our lives and happiness, but only certain actions will be effective. Unlike lower animals, we choose our actions
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