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20-02-2010, 01:07 PM
Hey guys,
I recently have come to realise that the art of picking up women is one with many trials and tribulations, and a roller coaster of emotions. When things are good, they are amazing, when they are bad they are pretty shit tbh! I recently been having a few successes over the past week, so I have been in a really high state when I have gone out. However probably wrongly, I have attributed this state due to a girl that I have been going on a few dates with. I found that when I went out, my state was so high and found I was getting successes left,right and centre. Which I believe was because I was looked at women differently, in the back if my mind I was thinking, I have a girl atm, that is hotter, probably cooler and has a massively high sex drive and therefore really didnt give a fuck. This belief meant that I really didnt give a shit about the women I saw out and my attitude reflected it. This lasted for about 3-4 week, of which were the most fun and exciting I have had since starting my PUA adventure. However thursday night things came to ahead with this girl. I had been up since 6am with only 4hrs sleep, travelled from Bangor, North Wales to London and back in the same day. To say I was shattered would have been an understatement and to make matters worse, this girl had made me dinner and was expecting me round at 7.30. I came round tired, and tbh was abit grumpy, not my usual self and she picked up on it pretty soon. I was helping her with some computer stuff, then we got as far as we could go, so we just chilled. I was on the couch and she was on the floor lying down watching TV. From where I was I could see down her cleavage and said "I have a perfect view here". Her body is a 10, so I was admiring the masterpiece. I was trying to be "myself", despite being tired, and we were having a laugh. I told her I wanted to have sex with her and we would have alot of fun, she told me she has thought about sex with me a few times. And said that if we were both out, drunk and horny and sex happens then so be it (tbh I think this is a lame excuse, you either like some and want to shag them or you dont, baring in mind she sent me a valentines card which she had kissed with lipstick and a teddy saying hot stuff, and regularly sends me some of the most flithy text messages I have ever read! ). However she told me that she sees me as a "nice guy" (i cant get rid of this name tag no matter what), that she has good times with me and we get on really well, but apparently I am not the "type" of guy she goes for, she likes "bad boys", not in a sense that they treat her like shit, but that they have an edge to them so that when they walk into the club everyone looks (alpha male? Its a shame too as she is a local and I am a student and the clubs we go are completely different, if she went to my places, I am like that and have shit loads of social proof). Anyway I started tickling her etc and we were laughing, she then got up and said I was abit worried then, my pants were abit loose and thought you were going to bag me (now I was not things abit it before she said it, she has done it to me before). So me thinking irrationally, pulled them down and with it released a can of worms (imo i dont understand what the prob was, I have seen her in alot less, she has done it to me and it was in her own home so know one else was around). Anyway she went off on one, I apologised and started to look for my stuff (in the past I have learnt to leave and let women calm down for a hour or two then come back or called back). She sensed that and started to explain why she reacted the way she did and we talked about it, she couldnt see my side, I can sorta see her side, that she is a women and that the sorta things ya do to your mates not a girl. Anyway, after chatting for ages and sorting things out I said, right I am going back to mine to get some sleep, we did have a final mess around before I left, and we did kiss each other. However the problem is, I am not sure where I stand with this one. I acted a bit weird with her when I saw her yesterday, as her flipping out has knocked my confidence to be myself around her. We have arranged to meet next Saturday to go ice skating. I am thinking of giving her space, I aint going to text her till she texts me and wont see her till mid next week (this will be hard as I see her most days as her shop is opposite my place). Any advice guys? What would you do in this situ? Cheers NO.FX     
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20-02-2010, 03:27 PM
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Or maybe go to her shop on Wednesday and just be cool.
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20-02-2010, 05:39 PM
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I am out in liverpool 2night and tomorrow so wont see her until monday at the earliest, however I am going scuba diving. So will leave it till tue or wed to see her then be a cool as fuck and myself about everything! We normally text everyday, so not texting her until wednesday might make her think I am pissed off about what happened and therefore loose value! so I am thinking of send her a text 2morrow night, so its not too weird when I see her on wed.... Cheers NO.FX
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