Visiting old gf how to bang her?

[Roboticmermaid9]

Ok so I'm visiting one of my exes, don't ask the reason why, we agreed to go see something together! Now we broke up 2 months ago, which is when she left to go back to uni! But before she left we where still sleeping together! In those two months we've had some contact, I've already banged someone else! So anyway I'm going to stay with her for a couple of nights and she already said that we are not sleeping in the same bed, which I just laughed and shook my head! To be fair not really bothered if I bang her or not , she might be deadly serious,I'm just up for the challenge I guess! My mentality going into this is just have fun and don't be too serious! But the question is how do I play this?

[BroadswordWSJ]

Not meaning this to be an anal comment, but if your not bothered whether you bang her or not, why are you posting this?

It must be something you want to happen. How about just have fun, don't be serious as you say, if you see an opening go for it and see what happens?

[Roboticmermaid9]

Ok I do want to bang her obviously! Just not sure whay approach to take?

[Stein]

This sound more like you're still a little hung up on her than 'up for the challenge'.

Having said that it may well happen. You guys used to be in a relationship and you're staying in the same place so maybe. Then again, I don't know all the details so meh, hard to say.

The main thing you don't want to do is exactly what you're doing now, which is get hung up on the outcome of whether or not you fuck your ex girlfriend again. She's at uni getting on with her life and it sounds like you have been too, so why even bother regressing like that? Aside from anything else being outcome attached and wondering how you can play the situation is the surest way to never have sex ever.

[Roboticmermaid9]

Def not hung up on her, maybe it's the way I worded it! Only wanted know the best way to behave in this situation!