Married with children.
 

Anyone here done the deed with a women in that position before?

Personally I havent. This weekend I met a women in a bar, she called out my name, I didn't recognise her, I asked how she knew my name? Apparently i'd spoken to her some months back and she bought me a drink to which I never reciprocated. I rattled around in my brain momentarily and remembred this. She wasn't too happy with me and said 'It's ok, you're a cunt' and walked off! (what is it with womens language these days?!? tut tut).

I was abit peeved that she'd called me a cunt as I dont believe I am. So I saw her later in the night and told her that I found her behaviour unacceptable. She apologised, a song came on that I liked so I took her by the hand and started dancing with her, next thing I know we are kissing. She tells me she shouldnt be doing this as she's married with 3 kids....Oh boy!

She's 34 and a cute little minx with a sense of style I adore. I can tell she likes me. My predicament is I would happily fuck her but nothing more. Yes, that is selfish of me I guess but many of us would not hesitate if the girl was single. The fact she's married with kids makes the whole thing more morally questionable. I know I shouldnt as the result could be destructive, however when drunk, logic and reasoning tend to be put to one side with sexual urges tending to replace them.

I was wondering therefore if anyone had experiences of dating/sexing married women with kids? If so how did it make you feel? do you feel these women are strictly off limits?

Personally wouldn't. I kissed the secretary who was married to a guy with kids at my old office the day she left, but nothing more. I made a conscious decission on this front even though it was obvious I could have got more. I try to stick to less complicated senarios all round.

So did you actually go further than a kiss with this girl then Hustler?

I personally wouldn't mate, walk away from this one.

I've been in that situation before when a woman has told me I'm married with kids and it pisses me off that they let it get to that point. What we do has implications, every action has a knock on effect etc.

If the shoe was on the other foot, you'd be pissed off.

Plenty of more fish, best advice mate, leave it.

As above, I'd swerve this one mate. Frankly the girl needs talking too. Ok some girls cheat on their blokes. That's their decision, and I guess everyone has been cheated on in the past, and perhaps many of us have done cheating on our own. It isn't par for the course, but it happens and its sadly a fact of life.

However, once you have kids, that adds a new dimension to it. She now has a responsibility, in my humble opinion, to offer her kids as stable an environment as she can, to give them the best possible chance in life.

She has the power to really fuck up her kids lives through her own actions. If she carries on the way she is, it seems to me she has no problem in doing so. I'd just hate to be the guy she used as an excuse to do that with.

Don't get me wrong, I'm no conservative 'family is everything' nut. Anything but, in fact. However I do believe that we all have responsibilities, and bringing new people into this world multiplies our responsibilities ten fold.

Find yourself a nice 18 year old girl and mess with her instead. The experience will toughen her up and eventually do her some good (that's my excuse anyway!).

Coverts spot on!

Aye, sound advice lads. I'm sure to this girl again because she's always at the same Indie nights I go to. I'll just have to set things straight with her and tell her the most I can offer her is friendship.

I'd even knock that on the head, for me the issue would have ruined any potential friendship.

Good lord Hustler, it wasn't that cougar we saw out on the night of the Cheltenham races was it?!

:p

Many moons ago I had an encounter with a girl and It was great. A couple of days later I found out that not only did she have a bf but it was someone i knew. I felt terrable about it.. So I wouldn't even go there.

As it says at the end of spiderman "with great power comes great responsibility"... You have great power.

Retro

Hustler- I have slept with married women 2 or 3 I think, from what I remember one was looking for a bail out from her husband at the time and wanted to move into my flat, I didn't let her. 1 of my old friend who knew nothing about game, slept with tons of married women in my old town.

I dont think their is anything wrong with it if you both have chemistry between you!!


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