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PostScript 13-01-2015 07:18 AM

period sex or lack thereof
 
Do you think it's unreasonable to expect at least say a BJ when the GF is on her period?

dan300 13-01-2015 12:12 PM

I expect blow jobs all the time when I've got a girl on the go, not just period week.

Having said that right now a blow job off anyone would do.

PostScript 13-01-2015 01:09 PM

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I expect blow jobs all the time when I've got a girl on the go
Well 3 outa 4 weeks isn't bad, but period week she just goes on sex lock down.

I mean I don't want to be a dick about it, I appreciate she's bleeding and getting cramps and stuff so maybe I'm just being selfish?

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Having said that right now a blow job off anyone would do.
OK but you have to ask me nicely :blowjob:

nova 14-01-2015 02:39 PM

I always try and make a girl as comfortable as possible when it comes to periods, as they sometimes seem to be embarrassed about the blood. I just make sure they know it's not a problem, and make sure there's a dark towel handy.

Aren’t girls supposed to be really horny when on their periods? So I'm surprised she’s not gagging for your cock in her mouth to be honest. Does she actually refuse your advances for the entire week? Not sure I’d like that dynamic.

To answer your question, i think it's reasonable to be fucking all month round, with blowjobs thrown in too.

PostScript 15-01-2015 08:53 AM

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I always try and make a girl as comfortable as possible when it comes to periods, as they sometimes seem to be embarrassed about the blood.
Yah me too, besides I don't mind not having actual sex on period week as it happens. She gets cramps n whatnot down there so seems fair enough.

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Aren’t girls supposed to be really horny when on their periods?
Yeah, not this one tho! She used to give me HJ's and BJ's but that's been resisted on period week for months now.

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Does she actually refuse your advances for the entire week? Not sure I’d like that dynamic.
Exactly, it's the dynamics that irritate far more than the lack of orgasms.

I think part of it is that sex wise she's very penetration oriented. She comes easily and repeatedly from penetration, without the possibility of which she loses all interest for a week.

I think that's the nub of it you know, she doesn't want to make me happy for that week and that's what actually grates.

nova 15-01-2015 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by PostScript (Post 94331)
I think part of it is that sex wise she's very penetration oriented. She comes easily and repeatedly from penetration, without the possibility of which she loses all interest for a week.

I think that's the nub of it you know, she doesn't want to make me happy for that week and that's what actually grates.

Yeah man, it kind of sounds to me like she's having her cake and eating it. You need to try and turn this more in your favour, and make this more about her pleasing you. Maybe next time she wants it, get her to wank you off/ blow job, then cum on her tits. No orgasm allowed for her.

Shahanshah 15-01-2015 02:10 PM

Have you tried talking and asking her about it? Or doing something sensual for her to enjoy as well

Don't listen to nova, unless autism is your goal.

PostScript 19-01-2015 08:59 AM

@Nova yeah I need to put some polarity back. I think being in a relationship has made me lazy and I've gotten into some bad habits cos sex is right there all the time.

@Shahanshah well I do lots of stuff for her, generally speaking I get her to come several times for each of mine. I learned massage too as part of my PUA journey so she's well catered for! I am going to talk to her about it but I want to shake up the dynamics as well I think.


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