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quick question about winging -
03-02-2010, 01:30 AM
ok so basically i wud be with a friend, and well sometimes he wud go up really impulsively to some girls that say just walked past in a club, now he wud start off by saying, "yea u see this guy he's a cagefighter... blabla" u know opening them and talkin me up, but i always feel soo awkward, im pretty modest and i just dont know how to respond sometimes, problem also arouse tonight when i was sober and my friends used this opener impulsively on a a two set,hb 8 and hb9, my mind went blank and i just didnt know wat the fuk to say, shud i ignore wat he said and talk about somethin else or wat? i need to start understandin how to use wingmen
    
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03-02-2010, 02:13 AM
Let me ask you bushido,
What do you feel like doing? I mean like really feel like doing. When he does that, what is your instinct?
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04-02-2010, 12:21 PM
Dude, your friend is a legend. He's giving you an accomplishment intro. I wish my friends did that. lol
You should just begin the interaction normally after that. Your value has been already raised, therefore don't even need talk about cage fighting anymore...just say hi and fluff talk.
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04-02-2010, 12:38 PM
Kes is on the money here. You're buddy has opened and given you all the value you need to build off. I wish my friends were that alturistic. Relax and vibe from there.
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04-02-2010, 04:52 PM
i was a cage fighter once, that canary didnt know what hit him
or effortlessly; its constituent values are not achieved by instinct or magic or wishful thinking. Human beings must act in order to achieve our lives and happiness, but only certain actions will be effective. Unlike lower animals, we choose our actions
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