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Default Andy Yosha being real , nailed it... - 28-02-2014, 05:18 PM

Got this blog post from day game, this sums up my situation, can anyone else relate to this ?? this is brilliant someone like Andy Yosha has come out and said this, moral of the story is dosent matter what level you are, what situation your in , never give up the game, that was my biggest regret, relationship stalled everything just as i was getting good , heres to everyone hitting it hard and persisting in 2014 and being the best version of themselves they can be


Hey mate,

This might come as a bit of surprise to you.

My dating life sucks right now.

Thatís right.

A few years ago, yours truly was a Daygame machine. I was ON FIRE. And I had an abundance of beautiful women all around me, all the time.

Constant fun. And crazy adventures.

But then, Daygame.com started to grow, and I went through the hardest period of my life, ever. Somewhere along the way, I got caught up in the daily grind, and I lost my mojo.

Sure, I went through periods were I hit the streets, approached and got some dates. On and off. But it wasnít like the good old days.

Thatís the thing about being amazing with women:

Itís just like any other skill. When youíre doing it all the time, you get good and youíre confident. But when you donít do it for a few months, your confidence begins to slide. And before long, you lose your edge.

It happens. No point beating yourself up about it.

But the question isÖ what are you going to do about it?

Well, hereís what Iím doing.

Iíve just got myself a copy of our own product, Date Against The Machine. And Iím going back to the beginning, and learning it all again.

Gonna get out there, and earn my mojo back.

Step, by step, Day, by day. One approach at a time.


Andy Yosha
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Default 28-02-2014, 06:21 PM

What a daywalking orlando bloom lookalike wishing twat.


Know Thyself.

Have fun.
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Default 28-02-2014, 07:06 PM

No idea who this guy is, but this reads like an affiliate marketing email. I'm not sure how much I agree either. In a way I get your point, you should take some time to get good and not just get in a long term relationship with the first warpig who'll let you stick it in. I do think though that once your game gets really good, like as good as you'd ever need it to be, you aren't going to regress too much. After all you already get it by that point, and the social life you'll have inevitably created by that point should keep you from becoming socially weird. I mean I can't speak for freakish superhuman levels of pickup, but ultimately good enough is good enough.

I also don't think you should 'never give up the game'. If I'm still wandering round Piccadilly Institute trying to work birds when I'm 55 someone shoot me in the face.


Y'all think it's bougie, I'm like, it's fine
But I'm tryin' to give you a million dollars worth of game for $9.99
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Default 28-02-2014, 11:04 PM

Tripz, you're a sucker man.
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Default 01-03-2014, 01:36 AM

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If I'm still wandering round Piccadilly Institute trying to work birds when I'm 55 someone shoot me in the face.
And better keep one up the spout for me :-)


Can't live with them, can't live with them
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Default 01-03-2014, 02:10 AM

I had quite a deep discussion with my old man last night. Maybe it's because I'm leaving soon.

But the crux of it was we agreed that a man really comes into his prime in his forties. Then you have at least 10-15 years in that period before it starts to decline. You guys in your twenties, you've not even got to the best bit yet. In your thirties you tend to spend a lot of energy on work because you are trying to establish income and status. By forties you've kind of got that.

I would say 40 -55 is a prime time for a man, unless you've let yourself go to ruin, which is the antithesis of what this forum is all about. All I'm saying is play the long game.

I admire that you guys are doing this at the age you are now though. I realise I'm coming at it further down the road, but I'm okay with that. I'm still a bit away from the downward slope.


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Default 01-03-2014, 04:53 AM

I don't think your ridiculously far out Serendipity. Although I'd scale it back to mid 30's where a man really reaches his prime.

Here's a link to a very good article on the subject.
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Default 01-03-2014, 05:19 AM

yeah Phenom, I'm probably adjusting for my own situation. Jeffy talked about 25-35 as a good range for getting into game. Earlier than that you're still building your identity, later it's hard work to change yourself.

I would agree. I've had to take the psychological equivalent of a bolster and 4lb hammer to my psyche to change some of my very unhelpful negative core beliefs into something more positive and helpful.

For instance, I'm not good enough for an 8, even though I've had 9's and maybe the odd ten giving me strong eye contact. And not having the balls to approach them. That kind of shit. Last week a girl approached me, not the first time for her and I would say she's a 9. Think Dina Carrol a few years before this vid and with lighter skin and slightly more petite (same lips, eyes and female energy): Dina Carroll - Don't Be A Stranger ( TV Performance ) - YouTube
For some reason I couldn't pull the trigger.


My Bro is 6 years older than me and he said mid forties was also a point he started to feel the onset of maturity (Saturn return). But it's partly genetic and inherited I reckon. I've known guys much younger than me who were more (emotionally) mature than I was.

A big part of it for me was not engaging in relationships with women. I was scared of that dimension. I think I thought I couldn't handle it. early experiences told me I couldn't handle it. But now I want to give it a try again as a mature guy.

When a girl starts testing you for weaknesses, it can make you crumble if you're actually weak. Now it's more of a joke to me. But I've had to work at it.

The biggest thing for me is I've lost my fear of death. Not meaning I want to die or I'm foolhardy with my life but I'm not afraid of the end anymore, however and whenever it comes. once you accept that it changes how you think.

Funny thing is I don't think my dad's accepted that yet and he's 79. So I'm ahead of the game maybe. I just don't care about shit so much now. I care but don't care if that makes sense.

You can love every moment of life and not care a jot if it ends at any moment. If you can hold that paradox in your mind you're on a winner. I've no doubt about that.

I'll have a look at the link.


Can't live with them, can't live with them

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Default 01-03-2014, 10:36 AM

I don't like how he says "hey mate" like who knows me. Prick.


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