Not a happy man, Getting nowere!

[William T. Riker]

Ok so a few reasons why things are going shit at the mo.
Bin off the forums for a while trying to be pro active but its just i havent felt like doing anything to do with game, i dont approach anymore its like i got AA fever back again,
however on the plus side what others call natural game i seem to be great at, im getting more smiles, more looks and woman are responding to me alot better, its just im finding harder to approach and chat opening my mouth is the hard part.

the other day me and my mum were going for some catchup chat at morrissons coffee bar and i saw this cute blonde worker, i maintained eye contact smilled and walked way i could notice her looking all the time but i didnt speak to her SHIT.

Oh and the reason im pissed of is becouse someone at work really irritated me, people just cant keep there hands to themselfes one lad keeps slapping me (In fun) whenever i say something funny (Or not) and another guy keeps giving me random touches but today really tipped me over the edge:

The kid slapped my arm lightly and i told him to stop touching me, i think he was embarrassed becouse i was telling him seriously infront of people
And this other guy Paul came up behind me and started massaging my shoulders while i was doing work on the comp, so i shrugged him off and said,
"Keep your hands to yourself or ill snap em off, im not into that mate" The boss was in the room but hes sound and i think hes noticed me getting irritated so i noted it in the journal at the end of the day.

I really am under the weather and a tad annoyed, i really wanted to twat Paul today but i must remain proffessional i think he has the message.

Will

[Sharky uk]

Well said Kowalski !
in regards to your sarging issues... i know exactly what you mean... i stopped gaming for about a month and found i had some AA the next few times i went out... ! couldnt believe it ! im not one to be shy regardless of if i know them or not... or if theyre hot or not... so you take it back a notch... and always remember that its not such a big deal... youll overcome it aslong as you look at it from a logical point of view! take those IoIs... but follow the 30 second rule... if you dont open within those thirty seconds then find another target... and been very strict with yourself ! im not sure if ive helped any but this is how i got out of my little dry patch ! PM me if you want or ofcourse reply on here!
Peace
Sharky

[picard]

Originally Posted by Sharky uk

but follow the 30 second rule... if you dont open within those thirty seconds then find another target...

divide that by 10, give urself a 3 second rule... harder to get used to, harder to enforce, but once uve nailed it, u'll be approaching shit loads of HBs!

Pic.

[Sharky uk]

Originally Posted by picard

divide that by 10, give urself a 3 second rule... harder to get used to, harder to enforce, but once uve nailed it, u'll be approaching shit loads of HBs!

Pic.

lol impressive ! but perhaps not for someone currently having sarging issues

[SnowLeopard]

Hey man,

I know how you feel. I went through the exact same thing. It all started to feel like a job, this whole "gotta approach for practice" thing.

I know this article that I read recently which really emphasizes what got me onto a new track, a more exciting one where approaching no longer is a job but a pleasure. I don´t really call it approaching anymore either, but for the sake of conversation I´ll use it here.

Check it out

An New Approach To Approaching A Woman. : Attraction Institute – Self Improvement Through Inner Game, Seduction Community, David Deida, Picking Up Women, Attracting Women, PUA Openers, Game PUA, Sarging, PUA Guide, PUA Community, PUA Bootcamp,

Most of all, I think it can make you appreciate the feminine instead of just beating yourself up because you "were supposed to approach her".

[SnowLeopard]

Hey man,

I know how you feel. I went through the exact same thing. It all started to feel like a job, this whole "gotta approach for practice" thing.

I know this article that I read recently which really emphasizes what got me onto a new track, a more exciting one where approaching no longer is a job but a pleasure. I don´t really call it approaching anymore either, but for the sake of conversation I´ll use it here.

Check it out http://www.attractioninstitute.org/a...aching-a-woman

Most of all, I think it can make you appreciate the feminine instead of just beating yourself up because you "were supposed to approach her".

[Brimstone]

A few of my friends have told me how mortified and embarrassed they were that they were shopping or having coffee with their mums when there was a fine girl waitressing or on the till.

Now why would an alpha ever be inhibited because he's out with his mum or be ashamed of taking care of her?

I was with my elderly mum in a Costa coffee shop, where they have ridiculously big cups for the largest size coffee, when I saw a waitress I liked. I told my mum she wouldn't believe how big the big cups were. Then I went over and told the waitress that my mum refused to believe how big the dammed cups were, and would she show her one? Sweet 5-minute three-way chat between me, mum and waitress, then two weeks later this girl, (Portuguese, ingenue, exploited by double-cunt boyfriend) was telling me she was falling in love with me. (Ended badly-another story.)

[Sharky uk]

Originally Posted by kowalski

The point of it being 3 seconds is that your brain doesn't have time to start calculating and displaying possible outcomes to you.

A 30 second rule has no such advantages.

When you get to a stage where you can still approach whilst ignoring the images your brain serves up for you, then take 30 seconds or as long as you want. Until then it is 3 seconds or less.


Peace,

kowalski

i honestly... feel ashamed that id never looked at it like that ! NICE ! and Thankyou !

[William T. Riker]

Thanks alot guys it helps, i did the other day well yesterday to be exact talk to 3 Woman in one day! thats ace for me, and i mean real woman not imature 18 year olds lol.