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22-02-2009, 11:32 AM
ok guys so basically, last night i was sarging with my pals, and this girl approached me so i turned to see her face and she was about an 8 so i thought hey why not, so i played the game she was interested i was garenteed everything fell into place so perfect now when i was dancing with her i did notice a couple of times this 9 was looking at me dancing with this 8, but then i look up just before i go to k close this chick and i see this tall blonde 9 staring, i mean she was just green with envy, so cut a long story short i ditched the 8 because i was just too confident that i would soon be bagging up this 9,
everything was going perfect she needed a bit of negging and the ioi's were pouring out, then i just amused her with a bit of magic and we danced , now i had the chance to k close her and for some odd reason of which i dont know, i didnt take it, and from that point on i just was unable to k close her, im sure shes interested, but can i still save this and if so how ?, ive got her facebook, i really dont want to let this girl slip any help would be appreciated cenzy     
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22-02-2009, 08:16 PM
I'm nowhere near as experienced as some of the guys here but my experience of getting FB's and #'s are that they are basically a receipt.
It's likely the moment has gone with her, if it was going to happen it probably would've had to have been that night... Imo the best thing here would be a message along the lines of you going out with friends on Friday/Saturday night, Is she going out, and where... Then try a indirect meet-up ie with all of you together and then start over from A2 if your using MM, remind her how you are and then kino escalate from there. Good Luck though and let us know how you get on Ambitious
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22-02-2009, 09:34 PM
ok dude cheers for the help., basically i met her through friends and well im pretty confident il see her out this week if not definatly on the weekend, so if i start over with her, your saying theres a chance it could work ?
cenzy
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22-02-2009, 09:45 PM
ok dude cheers for the help., basically i met her through friends and well im pretty confident il see her out this week if not definatly on the weekend, so if i start over with her, your saying theres a chance it could work ?
cenzy
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22-02-2009, 10:48 PM
Here's a plan that might work! I'm a novice too so if what I say is wrong please someone correct me, I wont be insulted!
Facebook! BIG DANGER of JGF's in my eyes if not played correctly! Get some of your PUA friends to post on your wall that you are needed for that night out! Let her see your calibre! Let her see you are a leader of menand pre selected by women! example! This is how I played Facebook and Match.com! Cuttng a long story short! Secured a date with a girl from match.com! now beforeyou all start shouting "cheat!" here me out! The opener was "so what do you think about that?!" The reply was "Think about what??? xxx" Anyway, we arranged a date on Tuesday for Friday! Girls love facebook! So on Tuesday I posted on my status....Anthony has a date on friday and can't decide between Brut or old spice!!?" My normal mates posted comments like "use bleach" or "Sex panther" and 1 ex girl friend also commented on it wich showed I was pre seleced! Wednesday I sent here a friends request! (important) The status was writen prior to the friend req! She accepted the friends req and belive me girls will pick through your profile! So the photo rutine is better on facebook than anywhere else! Anyway the last comment was by here! "niether ;-) x" Got sex close that night from Match! Facebook can show a lot about a person! if you only have russian girls on your friends list their not going to look at you twice! If you have mates taking the piss out you, girls leaving messages on your wall and that kind of thing it can show many of the points of attraction! But I recomend getting the advice off a pro on this! I don't want to mess your game!!!
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23-02-2009, 09:28 AM
Cenzy, the best thing you can do is learn from the experience what did you do that went well and where was the mental block, what stopped you from closing the deal with her? then move on...
Don't be too hung up on this one particular woman.... What happened to the 8? I would have closed on her and tested the water to see if she was bi-sexual or open to the idea THEN AND ONLY THEN would I have moved onto the 9 by doing this you would have shown that you are the AMOG and have high status and value. You may even have been able to get a little 3some going, but this is my thing I only intererested in bi-sexual women. I don't do FB or anything else other than moby numbers and even here I have my own PUA hotline that I only use for HB's to call on. FB and other social sites are too public and you don't want to give too much free stuff away. I would put both women out of your mind and just go out next week with no expectations at all. OH and if you are in the field for 8's and 9's I would like to say thanks for leaving all the 10's for me 
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23-02-2009, 01:27 PM
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23-02-2009, 03:50 PM
cheers guys i appreciate it, yeah i just think i was gutted because she was so nice, but really im quite happy that what i did was right and how it all run so smoothly.
the only thing i can think that caused me to just stall was that her friend who was a 4 was so jealous ( not it a spiteful way) and i just remember her there always trying to turn me and the 9 being a 2 set to me the 9 and her into a three set so maybe i guess worrying about her messin it up and i guess i took my eye off of the ball. but hey theres next week ? thanks again guys i really appreciate it cenzy
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23-02-2009, 04:03 PM
Cenzy,
I play poker. Not those tournaments you see on t.v., cash games. There is no winning and losing. There are winning players and losing players. You see, I can sit down at a table, make nothing but the right decisions for three hours straight, and still be down for that session. I can go sit down, make a lot of mistakes, and still be up for the session. The point is, it's about making the right moves, the right decisions, doing things right. As a result, overall I am a winning player. Over the course of thousands of sessions I have won more than I have lost. I never think about that, however, when I'm actually playing the game.. That's thinking in terms of results, not the process. It's the process that is the most important. Sorry guys, this was my feeble attempt at using a metaphor to drive home a point.
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