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06-01-2010, 01:14 PM
Never thought i'd have to ask advice on how to get rid of a girl, but to be honest, with all the focus on obtaining girls, i've kind of forgotten how to get rid of a girl!?!?
Basically did a day2 with a girl, and tbh i wasnt actually feeling it that much! I never say no to making plans to meet new ppl, but i kinda realised i didnt fancy her THAT much, and ive got other options i'd rather persue. She text me asking me out for a day3. Don't get me wrong, she's very cute.. but i dont think she's forward enough, and my other partner, she likes to get down to business, and is more confident in herself, which i like... So my question is... what is the best/nicest way to tell a woman you don't want to go out with her, without risking hurting feelings, making your point clear and decisive, but where possible allowing for a future encounter to possibly occur? I know its perhaps safe to say that i cant have it both ways... so consider that last little bit as a luxury, im more interested in just saying 'no' nicely... as form my experience, when girls say 'no' to me, i have tended to resent them... lol Thanks In Advance Picard.     
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06-01-2010, 01:45 PM
Hmmm this is indeed a tricky one Picard. On the one hand, the right thing to do is to be honest and forthcoming, and leave her in no doubt about how you feel. On the other hand, doing this in the wrong way would leave her worse off than if you lied.
Just let the girl down gently but honestly. She can't reasonably resent you for telling the truth, and will probably be grateful that you didn't lead her on. It's a harsh thing to say, but all the stuff about not caring what other people think when you're picking up girls has to spill over into other aspects of life, eg breaking up with them. You have to detach yourself from the fact she might resent you for a while, because however she feels, you'd be doing the right thing. Hope this helps mate.
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06-01-2010, 01:52 PM
Yeah what Blanca said.
Dude didn't you be upfront and honest with some bird on 'plenty of fish' that mislead you? Worked out right? Honesty is the best policy, you would wish for people to be honest with you so you should demonstrate this back to others.
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06-01-2010, 02:01 PM
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06-01-2010, 09:22 PM
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I agree with all of the guys on here. In fact, I know of another way to get rid of a female who is all over you. What's the update Picard?
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07-01-2010, 10:14 AM
update then...
basically my current entourage consists of a girl who is basically borderline fb/gf, regular action involved. then i have a girl who ive just started dating, whos v/keen, and could become the next fb/gf... then i have an older girl on the go, complete slut, who im just keeping on the backburner, making sure she's not 'all-talk' but basically, the first of those three, is moving away, to america, so thats that one ended, and i kind of compared the others to her, and that made me want to blow off the one i was dating as i think i preferred the american one. However as she's now off the radar, i've bumped the date girl up to number one slot, and so on... and am going to look for a new 3rd dating target! the complexities of being an amateur pickup artist! lol Picard. os: royal flyness, whats this other way to get rid pls????
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07-01-2010, 11:10 AM
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You're a bitch, you must have never been taught how to be a man. That is f*cking dispicable!!! Mods, ban him again, the douche bag...
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for some new shoes or to pay your phone bill. The next time she calls, you should "up the ante"...this time, tell her you need something a bit more expensive like a new TV or some work done on your car. Each and every time she wants to talk, make it a point to bring up finances. 
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07-01-2010, 11:26 AM
Dude, that is totally unacceptable behaviour.
Its called blackmail. When you know she will pay up just because she likes you, that's using her. She will lose, you will profit, its lose/profit not win/win...
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07-01-2010, 11:57 AM
Personally I was willing to give you the benefit of the doubt YRFlyness, despite the constant plugging of your e-book. However that behaviour is lame, that has no place in a modern civilized society let alone in relationships with women. A real man should be able to take care of his own finances, that is part of the clarity and judgement that comes with adopting a masculine role. Women will be turned off by these failures, if that is your deliberate ploy to convey this to a women then fair enough (however odd that actually is) but to take money from her and user her is pathetic.
Personally I would not regard this as credible advice. If you're just looking to make a quick buck from desperate souls then please go elsewhere. This forum prides itself on having no advertisers and banners where advice and guidance is free and impartial without any obligation. People making money from 'pick-up' are ten-a-penny these days, most of these so called 'gurus' are full of shit. We would therefore prefer not to have these sorts of people advertise here to protect vunerable users from parting with their well-earned cash in exchange for a potentially unsatisfactory product. If you really believe you have a credible product then good luck to you but we would prefer it if you would plug it elsewhere. If you have something positive and constructive to contribute toward the community then get in touch with AJ and Jordan Harbinger (Based in NewYork) who run the 'pick-up podcast', they only invite guests on their show who they see as people who add value to the community whilst protecting the community from the plethora of marketeers and scam-artists out there. However, if you wish to contribute constructively and help others on this forum then of course feel free to do that but we would prefer this advice to be free and under no obligation as these are the foundations of which this forum are based upon. Having met Dolphin, I categorically say he is a great guy, a man of honour and integrity, that little out-burst of his is uncharacteristic, (you must have really ruffled his feathers) and I can also say he has a great command of the English language better than most.
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