A Little Help
 

I am heading out tomorrow night and need some advice. I find approaching and opening fairly easy and can get talking to a set and retain their interest for a while. BUT I have a problem keeping the conversation lively and unpredictable and always find myself resorting to normal mundane topics until the conversation dies and I am forced to excuse myself.
Any quick fix ideas for tomorrow?

Cracker

There was something I watched a few months back with a UK pua called I am the future. If he saw a girl that was losing interest he'd hook her back into the convo by saying "You know, you kinda remind me of a powerpuff girl!" It's such a bizarre statement and neg that the girl can't help but laugh and continue the conversation herself through curiosity.

I've tried it a few times and it's always worked with me, though I haven't used it often. Give it a go anyways. Let us know how you get on.

No. There are no quick-fix solutions for this game of pick up. Cefai's little quip is a good safety net, and I'd recommend you give it a go. It'll help you plough through sets and it will improve your game to an extent.

However, you need to look at the bigger picture. These magic pills are usually the ticket to short-term gain but rarely solve the root of the problem. In this case it's your inner game and fundemental self-confidence. Developing this is a difficult long-term process, and one that +90% of the guys on here are constantly working on. Achievement of this goal will make you realise you can say anything you like. If you say it with enough confidence and conviction, she will respond to it. Your stronger reality will win. If anything, she will be more attracted to you for having the confidence to impose your reality on her.

Hope this helps dude. As for short-term solutions, try resorting back to opinion openers. Anything will do - "Who do you think would win in a fight between Margaret Thatcher and the Queen?" "If you could go anywhere for a holiday, where would you go?"

As for developing inner game towards a long-term solution, check out RSD's stuff. Their Blueprint is fantastic.

Thanks
 

Thanks guys, I have got a lot of stuff waiting to be read and watched (Including Blueprint), its just finding the time. I will try out some of the lines you recommended tonight and make it my goal from now to work harder on inner game, in fact I just started this morning. Hope you all have a good New Year.

Cracker