is this a flake? - need help with how to handle this please!

[foxster]

hey,

so been doing an online sarge thats been going quite well. progressed onto msn and then number and she suggested we should meet up soon.

yesterday i txt about meeting monday for a drink and she replied to say that would be lovely, we'll organise something.

today i txt saying 'hey birthday girl. so hows ur day going? about meeting for that drink tomorrow. shall we say meet in the xxx at 7.30? x"

the reply i get soon after is 'im not sure if i'll be able to come out tomorrow at the moment because im not very well at the moment. i'll keep you posted. sorry to mess you around xx'

any thoughts? advice on how to proceed? - i haven't replied yet.

thanks in advance

[picard]

hmmmm... interesting, she left a reasonably mbiguous statement.

rtaher than just saying. 'im not very well, il let you know'

i doubted the genuinity of an illnes claim not so logn go, and turns out it was genuine...

i pronally, would say, 'ok, dont worry, lets g ou wednesdya, hope u feel better soon!'

get new day confirmed, allowing generous recovery time...

dotn leve the ball in her court, as you'll probs b waiting aruond for aages to get a positive repsonse!

Take Command, Re-Schedule

Picard.

[picard]

ok, i apologise for that post, my keyboard is playing up.. il we-write on my other computer!

[legend]

Give her the benefit of the doubt. If she's ill, leave it till she's well again! Dont read too much into it. When she says "I keep you posted", you can say "yeah keep me posted and get in touch when you are 100%". It shows you aint desperate and it shows you care for her. Give her a few days and if she doesnt text, text her asking how shes feeling and if she is still up for the drink. If she is still not up for it, I just leave it and move on.
Much Success....

[picard]

hmmmm... interesting, she left a reasonably ambiguous statement.

rather than just saying. 'im not very well, il let you know'

i doubted the genuinity of an illnes claim not so long go, and turns out it was genuine...

i personally, would say, 'ok, dont worry, lets go out wednesday, hope u feel better soon!'

get new day confirmed, allowing generous recovery time...

dont leave the ball in her court, as you'll probably be waiting around for ages to get a positive response!

Take Command, Re-Schedule

Picard.

[Hustler25]

I second what Legend said.

[Johnny Hotrocks]

I reckon leave it with her to contact you. Don't appear needy. If you dont hear anything in the next 2 days. Just text sayin something like sorry we didnt get together, maybe next time.........bye
If she wants to meet up she will be back in touch

[foxster]

Originally Posted by adam

go out and meet other women.

have been. and im fairly new to the whole pua thing so have been getting over the whole approach anxiety. have been doing well so far.

im just having trouble getting a more flirty conversation going after i've opened.

what would you recommend as some good, easy routines that i could use early on in a convo to get things going?

[jj smooth]

MMMMMMMM This is a tricky one, just do what picard said give her time and set another date and if she blows you off then find another chick but dont let your confidence drop.

Good luck.