ok, on i think the 5th or 6th date now, which kind of for me, rules out the non-genuinety side of the title, but as we have had plans to hook-up this weekend (tommorrow to be precise) today (thursday evening) she has said on facebook that she's ill, and has kind of hinted at postponing/cancelling the date?...

Now this isn't critical as this will be the 5th or 6th repeat performance of a no-nonsense date with guaranteed results after sunset, but i'm wanting to consolidate and make sure its not the end of my current conquest with this girl...

She says she's ill, and has said words to the effect of 'i dont want to get you ill' etc and 'ok, but dont blame me if u get ill' etc etc, as i playfully toyed along at the idea of staying with her anyway.

I then, presented the idea that i might not come if she is ill, and tried for a reaction... the reaction i got was 'well, il let you know how i feel tommorrow'

after that, i made a few sex-flirtatious comments, and she repsonded positively as always... she still seems to be well up for it!


enough of the rant...

So... my question...

Do i: Risk potential illness to secure another guaranteed shag?

or: be sensible, stay away, preserve my health but risk failing a test, where im supposed to show the ability to be compasisonate and caring??

what would you guys do?


also: getting ill is a big deal for me, because my work depends on my health!


also... im kind of more irritable of the fact she will 'let me know' because i dont want her to leave it til the last minute, then im stranded with no options late friday night....



anyways,

comments, concerns, suggestions?

always welcome and greatly appreciated!

Picard.

if I am honest, you have sorta answered your own questions. There are two things that stand out for me here:

1.) Your job and your health
2.) Your on your 5th or 6th date

I personally wouldn't risk my health for her, also doesnt it send the wrong message that even tho she is ill you are desperate to go round. Also you have had quite a few dates, as you said, this isnt a flake. If she has said, I will see how I am tomorrow, it sounds like she has the value and authority. I would text her and say "that you cant risk getting ill and you hope she get better quickly" and then reschedule for another time. I cant imagine her not wanting to see you coz you cancelled, coz she was ill.

Thats my 2p's worth.

Tom

No biggie - she's ill, leave it till she's well again! Dont read too much into it. When she says "see how I feel tomorrow", you can say "best to leave till you are 100%". It shows you aint desperate, it shows you care for her and it also means you can plan to go out with the boys tomorrow night...SORTED!

Agreed with no.fx and legend. Don't get yourself ill for some pussy you've already had. See it as an opportunity to see the boys! It's win-win.

advice noted and executed!

going to perhaps, see the guys, if we go out, il flex my sarging muscles a bit, refresh on the opening-side of gaming!


Cheers,


Picard!