pick up and rape

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[daleinthedark]

This is something that has always concerned me, where does leading stop and rape start?

I always slacked off a little when heading to the bedroom to make sure they were as in to me as I was them

[dan300]

Yeah dale I've did the slacking off thing too in recent years. It's not exactly necessary when you're tearing each others clothes off, it's only really when I get a bad vibe I'll do It.

For example last month I had this girl I'd met a few hours previously in my bed. I was on top of her kissing her around her neck etc & it was fine for a few minutes until she started doing, well, nothing at all, just lying staring at the ceiling. It weirded me the fuck out & I told her look you don't seem into this so I think we'll just leave it, to which she replied a few half hearted protests, I just said ok whatever & rolled over & almost instantly fell asleep (it had been a long weekender)

I woke - probably a few minutes later - to her wanking me off & wanting sex, so then I banged her.

Mystery would call this a freeze out. I call it not accepting unnecessary games or bullshit.

[dan300]

There is a lot going on on my street. I live on the 3rd floor looking out onto one of the busiest nightlife areas. Almost every night of the year it's full of people until 5am.

A few weeks ago there was these 2 drunk chicks at the takeaway across the road (nothing new) but one of the guys, who seemed to be with the drunker girl, was very aggressive. I thought he was just trying to be alpha, so that's what I tried to look for, but he was sober & anytime the girl went to try & talk to someone he would take her hand & pull her where he wanted to go. Then when they were "leaving" the aggressive guy gave/threw the pizza he had just bought to the less drunk girl (in what I observed as something to shut her up & not be a cockblock) then took the drunk girl by the hand to his car where he opened the back door, made sure she got in, directed the other girl in, & then the two guys got in & they drive off.

I was annoyed to the point of wanting to go out & tell the guy to lay off, but then what if they were a couple? Along with all the other what ifs.

I witnessed someone who was an aggressive prick towards women though, a person I subsequently don't like.

[daleinthedark]

I mean girls like somebody who is dominant (not controlling) but its tough to tell when a girl is just following because she thinks she can't say no and because she is just shy and when you're on a night out...

I'm surprised we dont hear of more cases of rape within the pua community

[Shahanshah]

Im guessing this is in the context of you dating a girl or at the very least you've been making out and back at your place, not with the Morrison's cashier as your doing your big shop.

[Shahanshah]

Seriously though, does anybody know where I could get a book on rape?

[daleinthedark]

I agree that the specifics of this campaign and comments etc. are attacks on freedom of speech and a harmless pua book. (or even a harmful pua book)

But I do wonder about the question of rape and pua.

I mean sarging and posting on here could be used in a court of law against you, not wholly as conclusive evidence but if spun in the right way it could be detrimental if false allegations were brought against you...

[Shahanshah]

I stopped a rape from happening last night.

I stayed in.

[Hydro]

C'mon! When it doubt, WHIP IT OUT!

If she doesn't do anything with your lil wee wee, than you know she's not down... easy as that.