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Originally Posted by Jaz
I'm sorry mate but there isn't really. Outside of being a manipulative slime ball I mean. I think my advice earlier is much better. You need to man the fuck up and put yourself on the line, she may well appreciate that.
Some people say the friend zone dosent exist which is a quite an abstract philosophy, as you have to be in control from the start. You have to be the one who decides which girls are your friends and which are your conquests. This is quite the paradox as a man like this would never be put "in" the friend zone so would not acknowledge "it" exists.
Anyway, I'm rambling. Just get off the fence and fess up to this chick.
Is that what you wanted to hear?
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Not really no but I respect your post. I'm looking for ways to get the attraction, curiosity & flirting back we had before. I'm fully aware I let myself get friendzoned.
We were flirting on & off before & she pretty much gave me a massive hint to ask her out so she did have interest before. I blew it by not making a move, getting nervous and not making my intentions clear. And granted, all the fluff texts afterwards didnt help. There has to be something I can do to get it back, it was there before.