Did I do anything wrong? Or is my phone game okay?
 

Hey,

I am currently at uni, and during the first week of my third year I have met this girl I quite like. She looks exactly like Frankie from the saturday's (Francesca Sandford (FrankieTheSats) on Twitter). When I was out with her (Friday night) I did loadsa kino..thumb wars, holding hands, high fives etc! And I am pretty sure she is interested!

Anyway I got her number on facebook a few days after and this is how the convo went on Sunday after the night out:

Me: Hey goofy! Its Mr King. Knock Knock.. x x

Her: Hey geek! Whose there? xx

Me: Cow go... x x

Her: Cow go who? x x

Me: Lol! No. Cows go moo! Haha! Makes me laugh everytime. Ur turn..? x x

Her: Haha! I dont think i can beat that 2bf, anyways im shit at jokes! Good weekend? x x

Me: Come on Mrs King! Dont let the King name down (mine and hers second name is King) I had a really good BBQ party last night, might aswell make the most of the weater. The food was amazing! (semi-DHV). We normally go this amazing place called capel curig where we go waterfall jumping and chill with a bbq. Are you the adventurous type of girl? How was your weekend? x x

Her: Cool, sounds good! Yeh weekend was alright thanks, just went out fri and last night. Just slobbing out 2day, think freshers flue might be taking over! x x


After that last text I didnt text back, as I thought it would lower my value and seem desperate to keep the convo going. Was there anything I did wrong...or could have improved, or was it just her..? I saw her in town yesterday and she would agree with stuff I said and kept really good eye contact which is always a good sign!

I am thinking of sending her a sorta role play text like..

'Hakuna Matata! What a wonderful phrase!........Xx'

just something light and something she can get involved in?

Any critiques, comment, advice on everything so far?

cheers

NO.FX

p.s dont worry this aint my friends girl :P lol!

if you want role play.... since you have the same surname as her do the married routine... it goes some thing like .......i cant remember it properly but...it went like emmm..... if we were married i would make you buy me 5 cars and 6 motor bikes and divorce you....you know what the good part of all this is.....(wat) you keep your surname when i marry you and divorce you......i really cant remember the married role play i just made up most of the this role i gave you lol.... i might of gave you bad advice...lol

What K said......there's no need to over-complicate it.

I have noticed a lot of guys worrying too much about lowering values or demonstrating higher values..! Why stop if the texting is going well, just because you worry you are showing her lower values? I personally dont think that by purposely not continuing in the text messages, a girl will consider you as having lower value unless you sound desperate and needy but a funny banter like your text transcripot above is surely not showing any of that desperation...! If I need to end it, I just say "Im off now, will text you later" etc..!

Good luck, she seems a nice girl!!

Maybe this is just me but, if a girl doesnt text me back with a question, I tend to think she wants the end the communication? Or would you say otherwise?

K is right. Unless she completely ignores your texts or blatantly says she aint interested, then game on. The fact that she gives you her number and it isnt flake, shows she is interested...! And how you build on the attraction after that is down to you.......