Day Game - creating stronger attraction.
 

Ok, so I’m pretty happy approaching and I think the fact I’d been very direct with pretty much every approach has helped me with this. I had assumed however that this ballsyness was enough to build strong attraction. It certainly kick started attraction and some of the girls seemed very excited to swap numbers.

However I feel I have not given them enough of a reason to meet me again, and this is true as I haven't managed any day 2s! I am going to work on this part of my game now. After all, with some of these numbers I have, I (and the girl) have no idea what to say as we have not built strong enough commonalities. I know I'd like to shag them and made that clear, but that alone is not enough of a reason for them to make the effort to meet me.

Some strong closes where I did create a decent connection, I have also messed up, possibly as I have been fairly needy about arranging a date (especially as I knew they were busy). I have also laid on the physical compliments rather too thick, but this has no doubt made them just feel like all I want them for is sex.

I have assumed being forward and honest was a good thing. However some balance is required and I need to pick up on stuff I like about them as a person too.

nova i feel like we are at similar stages in life, it would be great to chat with you on FB or summat from time to time.


i think showing intent and interest is not enough which is what you're doing. showing what ur about, your value, negs (aka teasing) etc. are pretty good.

Perhaps the title of this thread was wrong. What I mean is tapping into potential attraction through getting to know one another.

I'm totally with the numbers game and it will prob take a long time. But you know what, I'm in for the long haul.

I do brush my teeth before I head out, don't you worry sir. Maybe I should get a haircut though... BUT, I do think being good at talking to girls is also is pretty critical too. But yes, it's true. This will come with practice.

i think dress sense and appearance go quite a long way. definitley when starting out.

sure when you're a pussy magnet who's banged 500 girls, I'm sure the confidence and sexual energy will just ooze out but near the start.. i think appearance is really important. i'm currently re-newing my wardrobe and shit cos i need a new look.

I'm with this... plough on. But until then, maybe I should dust off that pin-strip blazer eh.

Word to this bro :cool:

Adam, do you feel you need to change something then? Are you playing enough of a numbers game?

Right, so I have now come to realize that the above part was in fact the real problem. After a couple of days of things are suddenly clicking more, i.e. the girls are responding more to my texts and phone calls, and now wanting to go on dates with me, with me being 'me' the answer, as opposed to trying to smooth talk them through embarrassing texts. Of course, it's still a numbers game at the moment, I need practice.

i find myself overthinking shit a lot by text also.. being out of character.. it just comes across as gay.