First Field Report, Natural night game

[db x]

Right so this is my first field report... I went out clubbing... Had intentions of trying out some natural game as i was fresh from listening to a few hours of blueprint before I went out, didn't either expect it to go anywhere near as well as it did nor that I would be writing this...

Right I got past some serious sticking points, firstly I went out and didn't drink... I've always been one of these guys that picks some girls to go talk to but firstly necks a pint or two lmao. I wouldn't normally even manage to enjoy myself and dance but I used some mindset techniques I learned from blueprint and I managed to get into 'state' once I was there I just realised how I shouldn't care what people think and just be myself... However I haven't read much about opening so I was a little too scared to open or approach at first and I was happy just to be comfortably in state and I must have been having more fun that anyone in the place!

I soon found myself being opened by girls, (must have been the 5th or 6th time in a hour that i had been opened when i plucked up the courage to try to attract).

So there was this one girl (HB7) wearing a top hat thing (I think she must have came from a fancy dress but not sure what as lol) Anyway she knew my friends and a few of them tried and failed... She was playing hard to get. Now with this girl I felt confidence (My friends had already failed so it wasn't like they could say out to me if i got knocked back, also the hat was so easy to open her with...) So I stole the hat and teased her for a bit... I found she was actually pretty drunk and she gave me higher value straight away... I was getting IOI's constantly so i got her number k-closed and then went to the bar with a friend... (at this point i had pretty much lost interest in her because she was pretty much being needy).

I went back and was dancing with her but sorta giving her the idea I had lost interest... Whilst doing this I think I had been giving off signs of sexual abundance because this fairly pretty girl was clearly being rejected by me... a HB9 kept giving me a really flirty smile (this one didn't know any of my friends) so I just thought to myself I have nothing to loose. Went over and totally naturally gamed it... My opener was "Hi, how you doing?" lol but i knew that I was giving off so much energy and I had been having so much fun that it would work... So we had a 10/15 min chat... Then her friend cock blocked (took her attention from me as I hadn't defused the obstacles because i was playing natural game and wasn't thinking logically at all). Anyway I shown higher value and the split second I lost her attention i opened a close by HB7, I got instant attraction from the HB7 and I found the HB9 tapping me on the shoulder in seconds... I introduced the two and watched them compete (all of this feeding my state and confidence beyond belief and my game got better as I done better that made my game better so before long I had the mind set that I could pick any girl in the club... By this time it was about 2 and i stuck with the 9 because she was pretty fit and seemed a nice girl too.

So the top 2 floors closed and everyone had to go to the downstairs floor which I'm not too fond of so I told the lass I was going to get a burger from the van outside (this wasn't natural I wasn't hungry and knew the burger van would have gone by about 1am) then upon being 'shocked' that the burger van wasn't there I asked her if she would walk to the pizza shop with me (this was quite a walk and my house was on the way, i had no intention of getting pizza).

When we got closer i told her that I had to get some cash from mine to buy the pizza... So i wasn't playing natural anymore but I was sorta mixing the two. We got to mine I shown her around and ended up sat chatting to her (I then said i remembered going to the pizza shop last week and it being shut so it probs wasn't a good idea) after a long chat I learned she was 20 coming up 21 (I recently turned 18 lol but didn't lie altho she claimed to not accept i was younger than her) By now tension was building as we had went from no talk and loads of kissing to building total rapport. So I just went straight in for a kiss while she was talking... She reacted very well and we made out a few times.

Then I managed to move her from the couch in the front room to my bedroom indirectly by saying how boring my front room was but that I took pride in how I had decorated my bedroom. Took her in had a little chat about memorable things in my room and then started making out... I ended up on top of her in a totally sexual position laid down on my bed but when i moved my hands down to move the interaction forwards got the response "no funny business" I responded with "Okay, thats fine" and continued to make out with her... Didn't try making a further move... Eventually she rang a taxi as she had work early in the morning and it was 4.30am at this point lol (she had said this earlier and so it wasn't a lie to get away...) when she left we made out at the door for a while she said "hopefully i'll see you again" and I responded "yeah, probs see you out sometime" maybe i should have set up a meeting rather than showing lesser interest :/

Oh and during talking she kept saying how much we had in common... We had some fairly common interests but i didn't seem to see it how she did lol was she validating herself to me?

Anyway today i text her asking if she had got to work okay and teasing that she would be a bad example going in after such a late night (as i had found out she was a regional manager of topshop), didn't give her a kiss or anything as I've stopped that sort of thing now to show lesser interest than most men who put kisses... got a reply much later but i think this was when she finished work saying yeah got there fine last night was good altho she was drunk and asking if i had a good time... I replied saying yeah it was good and that she had said she was sober but i had seen through it... and haven't had a reply yet but this wasn't long ago...


anyway this is my first field report and i hope to hear some + and - points on my game and appreciate any responses...

I think my game has improved greatly as I overcome the following all at once

-sober approaches
-sober dancing in clubs
-enjoying sober nights out
-first time i took a girl that i had not previously knew home on the same night i met her
-understood state and managed to control being in and out of it fairly well
-managed to mix natural with tactical game
-displayed and felt higher or equal value to everyone else in the environment


sticking points

- F-Close

I really think I should have f-closed this.

Hope I've managed to do this properly because its my first write-up of a field report...

Much Love
.db x.

[bushido]

Originally Posted by db x

Right so this is my first field report... I went out clubbing... Had intentions of trying out some natural game as i was fresh from listening to a few hours of blueprint before I went out, didn't either expect it to go anywhere near as well as it did nor that I would be writing this...

Right I got past some serious sticking points, firstly I went out and didn't drink... I've always been one of these guys that picks some girls to go talk to but firstly necks a pint or two lmao. I wouldn't normally even manage to enjoy myself and dance but I used some mindset techniques I learned from blueprint and I managed to get into 'state' once I was there I just realised how I shouldn't care what people think and just be myself... However I haven't read much about opening so I was a little too scared to open or approach at first and I was happy just to be comfortably in state and I must have been having more fun that anyone in the place!



I soon found myself being opened by girls, (must have been the 5th or 6th time in a hour that i had been opened when i plucked up the courage to try to attract).

So there was this one girl (HB7) wearing a top hat thing (I think she must have came from a fancy dress but not sure what as lol) Anyway she knew my friends and a few of them tried and failed... She was playing hard to get. Now with this girl I felt confidence (My friends had already failed so it wasn't like they could say out to me if i got knocked back, also the hat was so easy to open her with...) So I stole the hat and teased her for a bit... I found she was actually pretty drunk and she gave me higher value straight away... I was getting IOI's constantly so i got her number k-closed and then went to the bar with a friend... (at this point i had pretty much lost interest in her because she was pretty much being needy).

I went back and was dancing with her but sorta giving her the idea I had lost interest... Whilst doing this I think I had been giving off signs of sexual abundance because this fairly pretty girl was clearly being rejected by me... a HB9 kept giving me a really flirty smile (this one didn't know any of my friends) so I just thought to myself I have nothing to loose. Went over and totally naturally gamed it... My opener was "Hi, how you doing?" lol but i knew that I was giving off so much energy and I had been having so much fun that it would work... So we had a 10/15 min chat... Then her friend cock blocked (took her attention from me as I hadn't defused the obstacles because i was playing natural game and wasn't thinking logically at all). Anyway I shown higher value and the split second I lost her attention i opened a close by HB7, I got instant attraction from the HB7 and I found the HB9 tapping me on the shoulder in seconds... I introduced the two and watched them compete (all of this feeding my state and confidence beyond belief and my game got better as I done better that made my game better so before long I had the mind set that I could pick any girl in the club... By this time it was about 2 and i stuck with the 9 because she was pretty fit and seemed a nice girl too.

So the top 2 floors closed and everyone had to go to the downstairs floor which I'm not too fond of so I told the lass I was going to get a burger from the van outside (this wasn't natural I wasn't hungry and knew the burger van would have gone by about 1am) then upon being 'shocked' that the burger van wasn't there I asked her if she would walk to the pizza shop with me (this was quite a walk and my house was on the way, i had no intention of getting pizza).

When we got closer i told her that I had to get some cash from mine to buy the pizza... So i wasn't playing natural anymore but I was sorta mixing the two. We got to mine I shown her around and ended up sat chatting to her (I then said i remembered going to the pizza shop last week and it being shut so it probs wasn't a good idea) after a long chat I learned she was 20 coming up 21 (I recently turned 18 lol but didn't lie altho she claimed to not accept i was younger than her) By now tension was building as we had went from no talk and loads of kissing to building total rapport. So I just went straight in for a kiss while she was talking... She reacted very well and we made out a few times.

Then I managed to move her from the couch in the front room to my bedroom indirectly by saying how boring my front room was but that I took pride in how I had decorated my bedroom. Took her in had a little chat about memorable things in my room and then started making out... I ended up on top of her in a totally sexual position laid down on my bed but when i moved my hands down to move the interaction forwards got the response "no funny business" I responded with "Okay, thats fine" and continued to make out with her... Didn't try making a further move... Eventually she rang a taxi as she had work early in the morning and it was 4.30am at this point lol (she had said this earlier and so it wasn't a lie to get away...) when she left we made out at the door for a while she said "hopefully i'll see you again" and I responded "yeah, probs see you out sometime" maybe i should have set up a meeting rather than showing lesser interest :/

Oh and during talking she kept saying how much we had in common... We had some fairly common interests but i didn't seem to see it how she did lol was she validating herself to me?

Anyway today i text her asking if she had got to work okay and teasing that she would be a bad example going in after such a late night (as i had found out she was a regional manager of topshop), didn't give her a kiss or anything as I've stopped that sort of thing now to show lesser interest than most men who put kisses... got a reply much later but i think this was when she finished work saying yeah got there fine last night was good altho she was drunk and asking if i had a good time... I replied saying yeah it was good and that she had said she was sober but i had seen through it... and haven't had a reply yet but this wasn't long ago...


anyway this is my first field report and i hope to hear some + and - points on my game and appreciate any responses...

I think my game has improved greatly as I overcome the following all at once

-sober approaches
-sober dancing in clubs
-enjoying sober nights out
-first time i took a girl that i had not previously knew home on the same night i met her
-understood state and managed to control being in and out of it fairly well
-managed to mix natural with tactical game
-displayed and felt higher or equal value to everyone else in the environment


sticking points

- F-Close

I really think I should have f-closed this.

Hope I've managed to do this properly because its my first write-up of a field report...

Much Love
.db x.

all i can say is dam good job mate, i myself have had that state when im sober, its awesome and u feel soo much better that u can be havbing such a good night without a drink it makes u look alot better aswell. i think that natural game is better but i think it really only works well if u already have good looks urself, but anyway v good result. this has given u so much confidence and u can now look back and know wat ur capable of. i got to ttry gettin two girls and introduciing them its seems powerful.. dont worry bout not gettin the f close, u were dam close, with the rapport u built etc i think u will be able to get a meeting np, a meet up with her will up ur game, ur f close cuda been just a onne night stand, maybe thats wat ur looking for, but if u get a meeting with her u have chance of f close multiple times

again good work, going out sober myself tomoz, ur thread def gona help me get in state cheers

[db x]

Originally Posted by bushido

all i can say is dam good job mate, i myself have had that state when im sober, its awesome and u feel soo much better that u can be havbing such a good night without a drink it makes u look alot better aswell. i think that natural game is better but i think it really only works well if u already have good looks urself, but anyway v good result. this has given u so much confidence and u can now look back and know wat ur capable of. i got to ttry gettin two girls and introduciing them its seems powerful.. dont worry bout not gettin the f close, u were dam close, with the rapport u built etc i think u will be able to get a meeting np, a meet up with her will up ur game, ur f close cuda been just a onne night stand, maybe thats wat ur looking for, but if u get a meeting with her u have chance of f close multiple times

again good work, going out sober myself tomoz, ur thread def gona help me get in state cheers

Cheers pal!
Went out sober again tonight but the scene wasn't quite what it was on thursday :/ got into state from time to time but where i went just felt so fake compaired to thursday didnt work as well... ended up with some needy girl following me around. could have easily f-closed... infact she just text me "come back out and stay at mine for some fun" lmao... but that shit really turns me off haha. anyway im going for the 3rd in a row tomorrow and ive arranged a meet with that lass from thursday too so im sound now

good luck 2mora pal!
xx

[Shark]

Hey db,

Well done mate - sounds like you were playing some sound Game. Don't be disheartened by lack of F-Close, think of it as a result that she was there in the first place and all because of your improving techniques! Wecan all learn things from every Set we open and we can always improve, but I would focus on your high pioints and use this energy to get you into the corerct State on cold/sober approaches. Looking forward to hearing more posts. Game On brother.

[db x]

Pretty crazy I just remembered that I wrote this, I've been with this girl for 9 months now.. Could barely remember this night till I read this back..

Had a lot of fun between then and now, traveled and 'sewn my seed' plenty so to speak

Came home and hooked back up with her more long term for now..

Miss this forum guys!

Much Love db xX