Indifference
 

Reach it.

Stop stressing and looking for outcomes; just approach and be like 'whatever'.

Me and Max were out tonight for the 7th night in 8 days and experienced the worse blow outs to date (not a long time scale as we only started going out 8days ago; we had girls running away form us.) Then i was just like, fuck it, 'whatever', and experienced the best sets to date after that.

Some dude was tring to tool us according to Max in this 5 set and i didnt hear him at all. RAS filtering him out? I was too busy chatting to this brunette, and the hot blonde that was in the set was trying to get in on the action. The chodey guy is like 'blah blah, i hate you guys', and noone is listening to him. Lol.

The night's are getting better.

Find the indifference. Approach with no outcome dependance. Just have fun, amuse yourself! Happy days :hihi:

:moon:
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The guy was doing his best to defend his group but unreactivity combined with social energy meant that we could reframe it into a pretty sound interaction. Initially some serious amogging "Are you guys still here, nobody cares, lets go, hey do you know who this guy looks like? etc" Jamm had the motherhen trying to interject "Um, hey, um" *tugs sleeve of target* "Hey err..um" Eventually she moved the group to a small table and we were left at the bar. The target liked Jamms convo though, she was completely into it. I made chit chat with the Amog after blatantly ignoring his defensive comments and attempts to tool us. A cool night, I started by sitting next to a couple of 9/10s in the smoking area and losing their interest in about 3 seconds. After that things went better and more 6,7,8's were happy to talk to us.