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17-10-2011, 09:12 AM
i opened 2 girls on the weekend and they allowed me to stay with them the duration of the night. I got both there numbers and we had quite a lot of fun at the club we went to after meeting at the bar. I told them my friends car broke down and i was ment to meet him at the bar. I tried to make them laugh and negged them a little and tried to build comfort.
Do you guys think i did the right thing by hanging with them all night? I have both there numbers so what do i do about contacting them? I didn't really make a target and I don't think either was sexually attracted but I could be wrong. As far as giving me the numbers I think they thought I was a genuine person and we did get on. Any feedback please would be awsome. Thanks for reading.     
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17-10-2011, 09:43 AM
You're Friend zoned
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17-10-2011, 09:45 AM
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anyway, if your looking for friends, this is orite, but girls want genuin from a guymate the issue is in most cases one of the girls is meant to be a little jealous. if u wanna be fuckin girls, u need to stay out of the friend zone!
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17-10-2011, 11:27 AM
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Become the needy guy who wants company and/or more - they leave you to it If you were contacting them, i would either continue the friendship as they can be good wings or pick 1 and go with her. That way you either have a wing or can show your intention. Chances are they thought you were a genuine and nice guy (you probably are) and thought hey we can hang with him. As a lot of users on this forum will advocate, you should show your intention early on in any interaction as it will put 1 on 1 of 2 paths, 1 - either they're interested and it continues, or 2 - they aren't interested and you can move on to the next set not wasting your time Also you don't need to justify why you are out alone; as long as you are confident and not emabrrassed by it (as you shouldn't be) just tell them straight, I fancied a beer, none of my mates were free so I thought I'd come get 1 and see what happens! Looks like you are doing fine, you just need to up your confidence/self-esteem and escalate. Also don't call them targets, it sounds creepy... A cynical person might say they have a new gay best friend 
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17-10-2011, 11:51 AM
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If you stick to them then essentially you are saying, They are more fun than what you was/could have been doing. You become beta because you are following. Personally, I would plant the seed of sexual interest and then grab numbers to meet up later in a club or get them to follow your group or if you are by yourself take them somewhere. That way you are leading and showing masculine qualities. That is also if they are worth sticking with as on a Saturday night, towns are filled with 7s & 8s...
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17-10-2011, 12:18 PM
thanks for all the ideas. I think I'll kepp in touch with them as they were very nice.
They asked for my number so i think there was something there maybe. I will let you know how it goes. I'm still learning, and there are a lot of different opinions that clash even to the point of terminology. But it's good to hear them.
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17-10-2011, 01:11 PM
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There are obviously exceptions to this, I've met a group of girls and just enjoyed their company and spent the night just drinking in the same place. I tend to do what I like, as long as I'm having fun 
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18-10-2011, 08:32 AM
I text last night to them both. One is up for coffe tomorrow i think just as friends though but I'm going to use the this oportunity to see how far I can take it.
I text her "Ive still got a big nose, do you want to sit on it? It was a joke from the night out. She text back and we arranged to meet. To be fair i do have a huge nose LOL
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