The biggest chode at the festival

[Jamm]

Hey guys,

Interesting one yesterday that I wanted to blog about. Big festival in my city and everyone I know is out, all the guys from work etc. Now, I usually get great results going out, not giving a fuck, bringing the party and having a blast. So, hearing my stories at work everyone is saying standard stuff like they can't wait to see me in action etc and, it got to me. I went out super in my head, chodley chode, mr try hard trying to impress. The longer it went on the more in my head I got. I woke up this morning completly refreshed after having a great learning experience. It's been a while since i've been that in my head. I felt pressure because everyone i knew was out who i don't go out with normally and I felt I had to put my pick-up-man personality on. I think the lesson here is all the standard bumph: be authentic, don't care what others think and go out more (it's been around two weeks since I was out). Not going out had a big effect aswell. The sets I was in were dire, girls telling me to go away etc lol! I've usually got girls all over me, what a 180. But I know why this happened. I'm taking it as a learning curve and I know what I need to do to improve. Even the bad sets, bad days are a learning curve, take it all on board.

[daleinthedark]

I wholeheartedly agree with Amit on this one. If you like you, and you have somebody else who likes you (Max) what does it care about the guys at work?

Also bragging doesn't really help, telling people who or how you are is never a good thing because it different people will perceive you differently and 9 times out of 10 you will fail to meet these perceptions

Enjoy yourself, believe in yourself, be honest with yourself then others and everything else will just fall into place

[Jamm]

Yeah you're right. I'm no way the finished article, still quite insecure and trying to figure this all out.

[daleinthedark]

Originally Posted by Jamm

Yeah you're right. I'm no way the finished article, still quite insecure and trying to figure this all out.

Jamm, we all are! Everybody has insecurities & worries, over time you will learn to rationalize them but you're taking good steps!

[Jamm]

Originally Posted by daleinthedark

Jamm, we all are! Everybody has insecurities & worries, over time you will learn to rationalize them but you're taking good steps!

bromance man, come here, let's hug it out x

[aofelix]

the lesson here is stop caring so much because no one else does.

people probably said they were looking forward to seeing what ur about to be nice and chatty... u just let it get to ur head.

[nova]

... but don't be needy.