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19-06-2011, 08:36 AM
I eventual went out last night with a few non PUA mates I had a good time but I did get a few negative comments from them (talk about limiting belief's and them stereo typing me).
We went to the first pub and had a new drinks I saw two HB9's so made my approach the first one had red dyed hair so told her she looked like Rihanna that line works all the time if they have red dyed hair! Game was on I started talking to them both actually spoke to them both for about 10 to 15 minutes until my mates said they where going soon i ignored them then they said it again so i decided to go in for the kill. I asked the HB9 blonde to enter her number into my mobile she said what! i said it again she said noooo I was like why do you have a b/f she said yes. At that point I guess i could of tried it on with her mate but may have been to obvious. I said my goodbyes and left with my mates. (Maybe i could of made more of it?) I spoke to some girls in the queue outside are local nightclub but i could tell one of my mates was getting uncomfortable with me talking to her so i stopped. Again in the night club i got approached my another girl she asked if i smoked i said no she was quite funny said oh thats great blaah blah blah, i wasent sure how to follow her up. After a bit i said why did you ask me that she said " it was an experiment" lol This was my real first attempt at being a PUA talking to four HB's in one night not bad shame i didn't get any numbers but ill still learning. Anything you guys would have done differently?     
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19-06-2011, 09:44 AM
You've gotta give a reason to swap numbers so that the number isn't the important factor. "Hey I'm going such and such you should come along would be a laugh" "OK" then swap numbers.
Also don't stop just cause your mate is getting uncomfortable, you're the alpha of the group.
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19-06-2011, 11:12 AM
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19-06-2011, 11:50 AM
Dude you're missing the point:
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Use leaving with your friends as a constraint to exchange numbers "hey we're going to xyz, lets swap numbers and meet up there" Quote:
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19-06-2011, 06:00 PM
Great advice Dale Im a bit dissapointed I didn't handle the situation a bit better but its a great learning curve. I see what you are saying ill try that next time
I wasn't being creepy I just thought he has always been the alpha male in that group but ill ignore him next time.
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19-06-2011, 07:27 PM
I just re-read my post and it came across a lot harsher than it was meant to because the fact you're out there approaching and chatting is great!
No offense unless your chatting to his ex, just treat everybody to a big toothy smile and keep on doing your thing, if he challenges you over it then he's already lost the battle! Btw great Avatar, you should read his book "The Bro Code"
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20-06-2011, 08:00 AM
No offence mate be as honest as you like! To be fair he had a few drinks but its no excuse I have heard him talk like that before he has limiting belief's about him self and that what I told him not that im his frigging shrink ill tell him where to go next time he does it and ill have a word with him next time i see him.
Im looking forward to talking to more women I honest feel im a bit of a natural at it i mean how hard is it to talk to a beautiful women! i love doing it  Fight Club was one of my all time best movies and its funny how it links up to the whole PUA scene it all makes sense now haha I have download the audio files for the bro code ill listen to them thanks !
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