"got a fella", "no", "no"
 

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And you see no correlation here then ?.

nice post, maybe you'd should habe gone for digits first and then date, that way the conversation goes something like:
whats your number?
erm... I have a boyfriend
*big smile & joke* that wasn't the question, so what's your number?
oh its 07*****

Saying that though if you go in confident (like you did) I find if you keep the conversation sharp and quick it puts them on the back foot and they'll agree

He's calling you a faggot.

I know what you mean, it's state of mind, results breed results.

With my comment I purely meant if you had planned on pursuing either as you seem an ethical guy.

In another post you were very critical of "game" "PUA" etc saying how its all bullshit. Now you post a report saying how you went out and drew a blank. I was hinting at the fact that maybe you might have something to learn from it afterall.

i just think women love to say no. even if they think the lad is nice, they say no & afterwards will go WHY DID I SAY NO

it like in sales u get a yes ladder

well women r that used to brushin off dickheads no is the auto response

if a girl says no, im gonna start sayin... look all im sayin is u may aswell give it a go, if we go out & there is nothin no loss

if we have fun then it was worth it.

let tham make a logical choice rather than a auto NO

You can go ballet class and learn to dance perfectly however you can't learn why to dance.
Faggot.

I can see this in your avatar image, well done. Its a fun opener to say 'hey you want to go on a date next week?' but NOONE is going to say yes without you conveying who you are with follow up banter. You might be mental or a murderer or you might not turn up or you might have aids. You have to spend more time gaming each set, for sure. :vroam:

I dont think they leave their bf's immediately, I think there is a transition period where they get to know if you are an upgrade or not. This phase probably involves som cheating on their part. better to find singles, especially if not looking for a relationship. I'd feel bad for making a girl leave her bf and then sacking them off after a week or so.