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02-05-2011, 04:59 PM
I’ve had a fun weekend. Spent a lot of it with guys from here. Felt thoroughly un-gamey, which is a good thing I think….
Friday - Numbers After an uneventful morning of trying to see 2 people get married who I don’t really care about headed off to a street party in Battersea. Wandered around for a bit with my wing. Felt very self conscious and was annoyed we weren’t in set. After a while, I said we should go speak to them to at least warm up. His look confirmed what I was thinking. They’re pretty fucking rough! Ok fair point, lets not. By far the 2 hottest girls there were doing Salsa dancing, 1 was just watching. (For some reason they had Salsa and Latino live band at this wedding street party – worked for me though). They were well into the dancing and I was still very self conscious. I said ‘we’re gonna get blown out if we go in now.’ The only way to do this would be to go dance with them and my Salsa is limited (this turned out to be limiting beliefs – will get to this), lets go chat to those others first. We couldn’t find the others. I finally grew some balls and realised you don’t need to warm up or anything. Just fucking go for it and your mind will give you the manual. The Salsa girls were by far the hottest things there; I should just chat to them! I went over to the one standing and asked why she wasn’t joining in the lesson. She was amazingly receptive and had a real pretty face. We chatted and flirted for a bit. Remarkably natural and easy. She claimed she had broken her foot which is why she wasn’t dancing, which I called her up on and it turned out it wasn’t broken. Teased her about this. Her ultra fit friend came over who had an amazing rack and lower back dimples. Pretty face says, ‘hey this guy wants to dance with you.’ ‘Whoa’ I immediately thought, but before I could do anything about this we were dancing away in the lesson and I was better than I thought I was at Salsa. After the instructor did his bit we danced for a bit. A lot of sexual tension. At one point I said ‘I’m looking at my feet to see if I’m dancing alright not your tits by the way’. Later on I looked down again and said ‘Ok, that time I was checking out your tits.’ I said this in a very playful way and she laughed and playfully hit me. ‘Hey it’s not like you haven’t been checking my pecs out too! I caught you too.’ Sounds a bit silly here, but worked a charm. Later I was doing my Spaghetti Arms thing (ala Dirty Dancing – thanks Patrick) which she found hilarious and was telling her to make better eye contact. Even though this was all just funny stuff it did seem to bring the teacher student thing back my way, despite her being a far superior dancer to me. Told her she had sexy eyes….. almost as good as her tits! She was shocked again, but was funny so she liked it. In between dances I had been going back and forth with the one on the sidelines too (my wing had started chatting to some other peeps). Was slightly undecided which I liked (soon to be recurring theme this weekend), but dimples had a far superior body and seemed more fun. Pretty face went home and dimples hanged with us for a bit. Unfortunately got way too friendly and unsexual. I guess Mystery would call this comfort perhaps, but just felt like lameness to me. She excused herself to go find her other friend. Not good! I feared I had fucked it. However, went to take her number before I left and she seemed really pleased and even said thank you when I asked for it. Nice response! Texted her a couple of hours later she responded. I didn’t keep it going as going out. Will call her tomorrow evening perhaps. Met a few guys from here. Went to Voodoo Rock. I got my face painted by a Professional Make up Artist we met. Looked amazing, although a bit scary! I was suddenly the most peacocked guy in an already peacock heavy club! Was basically chatting to everyone, just being sociable. The only girl I really fancied in there was Craigus’ bird’s mate. Number closed her, but nothing else. Bastard phone messed up again and didn’t save her number! Luckily can get it from Craigus. She seemed a bit shy, unsure if she fancies me. Will see. Chatted to a girl on the way home who looked a bit upset. Her wallet had been stolen. Genuinely just wanted to see if she was ok. She was waiting for her BF, so didn’t push it, but cheered her up and felt I had done a good deed. Saturday - Kisses Huge day! At midnight can officially drink again! Have been tee-total for a month! Met a few guys in Clapham. Vodka Rev, spied a couple of girls sitting in a booth, so went over with Markus UK and used my all time favourite opener! ‘Hey can we join you?’ (this opener has a 100% track record btw!) ‘My friend is sitting there’ ‘How big’s your friend?! You could fit 6 or 7 people in there! Unless your friends with Jabba the Hutt I’m sitting here!' (something along these lines) We chatted about Skydiving and bungee jumping for a bit as Craigus had just done his jump. Conversation was easy and soon became the Snake Eyes Show big time. The girls kept rotating as they went to the bathroom, so I was doing a role play speed date thing and would slag off my target when I was with a different one. Was all very genuine and fun and I was acting like I want to act around girls! I was really undecided which girl I liked out of the 3. Blondie was far fitter I reckon to most guys, but there was something about the brunette I quite liked. I had a brunette moment and decided to take her number. This later really seemed to help pull Blondie as it made her jealous (this was not intentional btw – just me been indecisive). Told them I would meet them for a drink at midnight in the club we were all going to. Had an AA moment upstairs in Vodka Rev – which I’m a bit annoyed about. Apart from this I have acted upon my intentions all weekend! Went to the club. We were dancing around. Kept going back to the girls we had met in Vodka Rev and opening a few others on the dance floor (nothing really stuck though). Then midnight hit and I was about to experience what I had been waiting 30 days for! A beer and a Yeager Bomb! It was fucking glorious! In that moment I honestly didn’t give 2 shits about women. I had an old love back with me! It had been too long! I got pissed! Used my first drink in 30 days thing as an opener a lot, but really I was just happy and wanted to tell people. Fuck what time is it, I better go pull one of those girls from earlier I thought. I really couldn’t decide between brunette and Blondie. I was flirting incredibly between them both, which again helped my cause I think, but was again just me being indecisive. I asked my wing which one he like best. Definitely Blondie he said. He was right, the other one isn’t all that really, but I still quite liked her. I think she reminded me of a girl I used to fancy in school. We went to dance, I told Blondie to stop acting shy. She said I don’t know why I’m doing that. I said it’s because you want to kiss me. We kissed. We kissed a bit more. She told me she could feel my cock when we kissed, which was very funny! First time a girl has mentioned this, despite I’m sure girls always feel it. I also completely out-shirted a guy who came over and started to unbutton his shirt next to us pretending to be a stripper. I had poppers on my shirt and just ripped mine open in front of him to which he thoroughly backed off! Went off for a bit. Was in quite a good mood now for obvious reasons. Kissed another bird for a bit who wasn’t very fit (ah alcohol – how I’ve missed you!). Realised I could possibly miss out on sex if Blondie saw this so stopped. Unfortunately couldn’t get Blondie back as she played the mate card! Oh well, I was quite content with a can of cider and a cigarette donated to me by some random. Again it had been too long! Sunday – Lays Oh my fucking God! I forgot how bad hangovers were! Was meant to be meeting that girl from a couple of weeks back who I had slept with, but she flaked due to illness. Met Blondie from night before instead. Kind of a standard date really, but wanted to include it as makes the title of this field report better! She looked a lot hotter than the night before which was awesome! Really cool funny girl. We went for a few drinks in a couple of bars. Figured she wanted to sex me, but didn’t want to come across as a slag. Didn’t tell her where we were going just said lets go for another drink. I said place I wanted to go to was closed. Oh well we’re near mine now anyway, so lets just go to mine for a drink. We did. I said we should go up to my room, as my flat mate is sleeping and don’t want to wake her up. We did. Put on some music and we started getting hot. LMR as per usual. She gave me the whole I’m not that sort of girl routine. I went down on her for about 10 songs or something. We had sex. I don’t usually do that on a first date she said. (Honestly do girls get taught this somewhere – every girl says this! Bleedin social conditioning that’s what this is – they want to have sex, but don’t as they fear they will be viewed as a slag!) Lessons Learnt Warm ups – Be sociable, but don’t go chatting up ugly girls just to warm up. Is silly and unnecessary. Also both Friday and Saturday my first sets were by far my best. Went from chode to mode just by going for it! 3 Second rule – Waiting around to chat to Salsa girls was silly. Should have just gone for it straight off. Losing it in your head – Didn’t go into this above, but after getting dimples number I completely realised where I lose it with girls I really fancy. I was in the gym Saturday and started planning and worrying what where we would do on our first date. I also started to also fantasise about how cool it would be if she was my girlfriend. I’ve done this before and is the moment I usually lose it with girls mentally! Luckily I recognised this. I’m going to treat Dimples like any other girl! I got other birds. Would be cool if we meet up, but I can take her or leave her. Sexual Banter and honesty – Playfully being very smutty and honest has been working a charm for me this weekend. Can’t believe I was getting away with telling Dimples she had amazing tits. Was also saying all sorts of other stuff about bending her over on the dance floor and it was working good. Was very honest with Blondie about why I had approached her and what I wanted etc too. Lifestyle – Friday was just fun and think this shone through the entire weekend. Went out to have fun and live a good lifestyle rather than game game game! AA – Still get this sometimes when out. Need to always act on my intentions! Favourite Opener Seated set – Can we join you? Alcohol – is cool, but not necessary to my game. Expensive, but fun.     
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02-05-2011, 09:17 PM
As always, awesome report Snake!
Friday night was epic and that face painting was the absolute mutts nuts! The night went really well for me with my Rock chick (the one I've been so pussy about lately). I kept building sexual tension with her throughout the night by whispering to her in detail what I wanted to do to her, and it was really getting her aroused. I wanted her to come back to mine, like she has the previous two times we've been to Voodoo Rock, but she said that her friend would have to come too, which would mean we couldn't do anything. Long story short, they came to mine briefly before I gave them a lift home (about 7.30 in the morn by now - we left Voodoo at about 6am), then when I got to my girls, she wouldn't let me leave because she was worried about me doing my bungee jump. I stayed there till about 10am, and I got to do about 50% of the stuff I had whispered to her. lol Rebus put me along the right lines at one point when I described my difficulties with her coming back to mine (I had to move back home recently for personal reasons, and while I can bring girls back no probs, it can be difficult noise-wise!) - he suggested I arrange for me and my girl to stay in a London hotel next time, to save all of the hassle, and also to just be clear about the intentions - don't try and hide it behind some other motives. So at one point while we were passionately kissing in the smoking area, I had a semi, which I knew she could feel - I pressed closer and said "girl, next time, we have got to get ourselves in a hotel where we can shout and scream as much as we damn well like!" She fucking loved that! I'm so pissed off with myself for not making it on Saturday night! I'll have to make up for it this weekend! I need to get out A LOT more tbh. I've been a bit lazy with approaching lately, so I need to start pushing myself a little more. Much love, Craigus
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02-05-2011, 09:50 PM
Snake eyes the blonde was definitely hotter! Nice one dude.
You came across as a really sociable guy and took an interest in the girls and people around you. Your approach was great and made me laugh it was so easy and relaxed. I was pretty tired after my cycling earlier in the day but it's no excuse really. I'm pretty shit at this still but I'm learning. Perhaps I should have gone and sat adjacent to one of the girls as I had to shout across the table to communicate. Looking forwards to the next time. Mark
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02-05-2011, 10:15 PM
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Good to meet you Saturday Mark - you must join us again.
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02-05-2011, 10:28 PM
Lovely work! Can't wait to head out with the London crew.
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03-05-2011, 12:57 AM
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I've had a busy subsequent part of the weekend after I left you lot! Met up with a married mate, who is regardless able to talk and analyse Game, had seven pints in an extended session, ate a ton of food, we played games of pool, then I pulled [k & #, but no x as she was due to get up for work early next day] a local bird in a pub which we'd visited three occasions throughout the day. Key forks in the path there: (A) Having been socially awesome by talking to loads of ppl in the pub (regardless of fit or not) during the sunny evening, on a return visit to same pub a few hours later, a women recognised me from our chat before. She wasn't attractive but turned out to be mates with a bird who I'd been eyeing up on earlier visit; (B) hence I met that bird I'd been eyeing up, it developed from there, and key was isolating her away from her group so I could escalate further. When her group of four female friends made to leave to next venue, I said "oh, we're hanging back to finish off our drinks" Then it was just me and her (my mate had been collected in car by his wife 40 mins b4, so I had been keeping a female 5-set sweet... tho focussed most on my target). Wicked day thanks to chance to see my good mate. I noticed I was largely on autopilot with the bird, perhaps a bit clinical, really just gaming it as it's a fun game -- like playing pool. I won the game of pool, I love playing pool. So then went on the pull, I love doing that too! Photo stuff on my mobile got invoked again, very effectively because I do a sweet range of cool varied things (as per her reactions), using http://www.puaforum.co.uk/psychology...e-toolkit.html
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03-05-2011, 08:23 PM
Nice report SE - you were putting in some work with Blondie so glad that turned out well
 'The secret of happiness is not discovered in the absence of trials, but in the midst of them' - Ted Nace
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09-05-2011, 10:10 PM
So been speaking to Blondie and Dimples tonight.
Meeting Blondie this Friday. The soonest Dimples and I are both free is the Friday after that. I'm a bit worried her buying temperature is going to go right down over the next 2 weeks. Is there anything I can do to keep it heated? Usually I would just call her again next week to re-engage interest and confirm we are meeting, but have noticed sometimes interest is lost if there is to big a gap between contact. Would anyone do different e.g. maybe flirt with her over messages or something in the mean time. Hmmm, anyway I'm not quite as fussed as I was as I'm convinced she is real hot for me now. Damn psychology!
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10-05-2011, 08:40 AM
Whos choice was it to make it the friday after dimples? - like you said with such a big gap buyin temperature goes down massively and its easy for you to get replaced by somone else in the meantime.
If its your choice to make it 2 weeks later i would try and bring it forward--if its her choice because she is busy even during the week then i dont think it looks good for you
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11-05-2011, 07:36 AM
Peoblem is she lives in Aylesbury which is quite far out from London. She brought up the meet initially and wanted this Thursday, but I am busy.
I suggested weekend, but she is in Oxford. Mid week is difficult for her as she is so far out. We agreed Friday. Really annoying as I played this one pretty well and we're both into each other but logistics/timing could mess it up! External factors are frustrating!
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