Last night I went out with my friends who don't know about pickup.
This was the first time out with them al this year and it was really interesting.
This is what normally happens; we go to some pubs and get drunk, typically never talking to any women unless they approach us. And everyone moans how the local town is shit and full of inbred people.
Well last night I just went out to have fun and didn't want to get drawn into any negative thoughts.
We first went to one pub where my beef cake friend got accosted by a drunken lady and I started talking to her chubby friend. As she wasn't attractive typically I'd not really have spoken to her. But I'm trying to treat everyone as a potential friend and I did this to her.
She was actually pretty cool and we chatted for a bit. At one point she said "look you should go back to your friends they're laughing at you for chatting to a fat girl"
I just said "I don't give a fuck what they're doing". Anyway when I did stop talking to her we left the pub to go to the local nightclub.
By now one of my friends was telling me our town was shit and every woman has an attitude here. I told him that was just generalisation and rubbish.
To prove my point there were three girls ahead of us and I said "right let’s see if you're right" and approached them and done my "I don't smoke but I'd really like one of you cigarettes"
The blonde I asked said no but then her brunette friend gave me hers and I looked at her and said if your friend always so mean. The blonde girl started talking to me after this was pretty funny.
Anyway kind of proved a point to my friends there that we can and should speak to anyone.
So we went to the club and I was drunk, more than I had hoped to be but still less than I would typically be with my friends prior to pickup. We saw the chubby girl we met in the pub earlier and chatted a little, it felt nice just chatting to someone new even though she wasn't attractive.
We then went to the dance floor and I just felt super chilled out in state. There two girls walked in HB9 and HB8. Once of them looked like Nicole Scherzinger and lots of guys were looking.
I just thought sod it and went over and said "excuse me I thought I'd let you know I think you're both really hot". HB9 gave me a nice smile.
Then they started dancing and I was too. I started talking a little with another girl then Nicole came right in front of me. I said to her "You look like that Nicole from the pussy cat dolls" (cheesy I know) she was giggling and as I was speaking she was trying to cover my mouth her hands.
I took that as her not really believing the compliment. I held her close and danced for a while and I caught a look at my friends face and I felt like they could see the real me and looked quite surprised.
Anyway she went off somewhere after that and I spoke / danced with quite a few girls. I told one girl she was a great dancer and she said "...I am a dancer" Then later on when she wasn't dancing I said "You're not a very good dancer" (That really amused me - I'm simple).
She put her fingers to her lips and went shhhh and proceeded to crouch down and do some funky dance move...
In the end I went home feeling very different to any other night I've been out in my home town.
Although I didn't get any numbers ( I didn’t ask) I came on to some hot girls and flirted and it felt amazing. I just had a really good time and it's just so much fun talking to new people.
Although I do wonder what the putting her hands on my mouth and the other girl shhh'ing me was all about, even though she kept dancing near me.
I still have a lot to learn but here are the things I want to do next time.
- Drink less so I can be more aware of surroundings and people.
- Approach girls not only on the dance floor and try and continue the conversation.
- Close
Mark
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