HB didnt pay attention after KC, where´s the mistake ?
 

hey guys, i´m new in the forum and now i wanted to post my first field report: (i´m 23y old)

last weekend i where out with a cool guy "yass" from this forum as my wingman. we opened a lot of sets and had a good time Than we met these 2 austrian girls, they were directly happy to found a german to speak with in their language. so i stayed alone with them and talked about some standart stuff.. mostly smalltalk. i didnt used any routines or something, but i start little kino by putting my hand on the hips of the girl i preferd (HB1, 19years, rated as a 7). after that we switched the location in the club a few times and i start taking her hands while we moved through the club.

i tryed to dance with her, but she seems to be not that interested and she really wasnt a friend of eye contact. (i think she was very shy) but her girlfriend (HB2)seems like to feel that their was something going on between me and HB1, so she left us alone.

a few mins later HB1 asked me to take a seat anywhere (i was little suprised about this course she didnt respond that good on the dancefloor)
anyway.. we took a seat in a quiet corner, i told her some private stuff about my family to build up trust. (the eye contact during the talking was okay, but she sometimes looked around like she was nervous) after 5mins talking, i thought i should try to kiss her, i turn her face to me by touching her on the chin an kissed her. we maked out for 5 mins after she was started looking around nervously and wanted to find her girlfriend.
i tryed to preclude her to stand up and search for her friend. but i didnt work, so i took her hand and moved through the club to find her friend....(i know it suxx, but didnt know what to do else...)

as we found her we stayed together for a while, i tryed to dance with HB1 again closly and build up eyecontact and kiss her again but she seem to be completly uninterested (i´m still thinking that she was maybe just very shy and nervous). so i started talking to her girlfriend for a shorttime and i tryed it again but still no really response. i didnt really know what to do, so i told them that i will go back to my wing and left them... and didnt saw them again this night.
now u guys have to help me to find the mistake in my game. thanks in advance ;)

i facebook closed her before the kissclose and addet both girls now (they accepted) i really dont know how to behave now. havent write them yet, but actually i wanted to do it.

i really appreciate any comments
peace

dont behave differently! u may be a bad kisser...

find a cool and ugly girl and practice! look online at how to kiss.

erm how about message her and ask her what night she is free and you`ll take her out for somthing to eat, a banter and some giggles.

if she messes around just bin her off.


If you are worried you might be a crap kisser- next time you kiss a girl, follow what she is doing.

Some girls ram their tongue down my throat, some hate it some hate any tongue, some lick you like a dog--everyone likes different things.

Just say something like 'You guys are fun, we should hang out again' and later that week tell them where ur going and say they should come. Dont do too much facebook chat, its no good. Sounds like u picked the wrong target, I had one girl I kissed say 'You really do like me don';t you??' Me 'Yeah ur fun' and then she would NOT STOP CRYING. I had to leave the set.

ok thanks for replys guys, but i don´t think it´s a kissing problem. i kissed many girls the last time and they normaly dont run away ;)

kowalski will kiss u! let u know

Just thought I'd chime in here..

It's not possible to get every single girl. Sometimes you might do absolutely everything perfectly but still fail. There's so many variable circumstances to take into account that are well beyond your control. You don't know what's going on in her life etc etc. Alternatively there may simply be a genetic reason for it, we are predisposed to seek those of diverse genes to our own, this can cause a lack of attraction in even the most perfectly compatible physically/emotionally/socially.

Even when you're on top of the world, feeling great, being awesome, doing everything right, you can still lose out. If you can't see an error then very often there isn't one.

As an alternative possibility, it may be that she lost interest after the kiss close because the excitement disappeared for her, she has you and knows she can have you now having achieved that goal. You need to get her to continue chasing your attention by creating excitement and not seeming like you want her all that much.

it is.. mystery does it

You reckon? £1000 says he doesn't.

It's like when people pray. They tell the tale of the 5% of times what they prayed for happens, but quickly forget about the 95% of times where their prayers aren't "answered".

Guaranteed Mystery has failures, he just don't talk about them.

Praying is a form of self hypnosis

somone believes in god and that he is lsitening to them, so they hit a trance state in prayer and in fact what they are doing is programming their subconscious

:)