Scamp - Clapham FR

[scamp]

As promised.
Last night I go in to see my mate as he just moved there.

Firstly, I live in a small Sussex village.

So THIS is where all the women are!

Basically I am a proper rAFC and am slowly pulling my game together.

Tonight's exercise= Eye contact.

We pretty much stay in one bar all night and it is crawling with hbs nothing below a 7.

AND they check you out.

This cute brunette across the bar glances over I hold eye contact and smile. Go back to talking to my mate. A few minutes later her and her mates are standing/talking to each other right next to us.

I don't open but this happens with about 3 girls (Hb7's)

They glance over, I hold eye contact, smile, they "magically" just happen to move to a spot in the bar close to us. They then probably give you ten minutes to open them and if you don't they're gone (fair enough)

So now I'm thinking
"Do I have to wait for them to glance over"

So I pick an hb8 and look over at her, steady eye contact, neutral.
I do this a few times over a minute or so, after a while she plays with her hair, then glances over (hold, smile)

And then she repositions herself near me!

Bingo! This is like weird jedi shit.

Plusses - improving eye contact

Minuses- didn't open once (sucks)

Why didn't I open after being an opening meister in Crawley on Tuesday?

My excuse to myself was that I was out with my mate who doesn't sarge and who has only recently moved to Clapham (was his first night out there).

Sounds a bit weak though huh?

Still am not going to dwell on it, out tonight in a mixed group in Sussex and will be back in Clapham in a fortnight's time

Scamp

[scamp]

Originally Posted by tony77

This is common, because you don;t want to break your state. Its a success barrier, you get so good at opening, all the girls you talk to are giving you great reactions and you don't push it further for fear of rejection, thus breaking your state.

Tony that is EXACTLY it!

I don't approach hot girls because I HATE getting rejected (or what I see as rejection, not getting a really positive response straight away)

You have just put into words my sticking point, it sounds silly but I didn't realise it as a success barrier. But now it's kinda obvious.

I knew about the proximity IOI, but in my mind I was thinking

"don't approach them and fuck it up"

I guess In Crawley I didn't give a fuck about any of the girls so just opened loads, but in Clapham I fancied quite a few.

Question is,

"How do I beat this Sticking point/success barrier"

Any suggestions anyone?

Scamp

[BCB]

And which bar is this? I wanna smash the crap out of it P

[scamp]

Originally Posted by BCB

I wanna smash the crap out of it P

BCB, are you Richard Keys?