Crash and Burn
 

Tonight is my flat party. There are 13 girls in my kitchen/sitting room. Ranging from a 3 to an 8.5. I am the only bloke here. I can't pluck up the currage to even open! And I know 2 of the lasses here, because their my flat mates. I've had a few IOI's off the lass I want (8) but every time I try to build rappor I seem to fail. I don't think I'm AMOG enough. I'm the only bloke here and I'm not the AMOG. Its depressing.

The girl I was after knew every trick! She knew the cube and all the other little things that I treid to used to build value.

i agree, been reading a lot on NLP at the moment, youre controlled too much by your conditioned brain which comes across as nervousness in an approach, ive been working on breaking down barriers of thought in order to get a balance between social awareness and confidence, plus suggestive anchoring is DAMN GENIUS!!!
ill have a good chat bout it when i see you mate, only downside is, planting anchors takes EFFORT! and aint too effective when youre drunk (found out the hard way last night)
anyway... bring on fri
!!!

Excellent post Jaz!
When you're in that situation and can't use material, then you just have to use your techniques and bin the material.
Situational stuff is always useable.
A bit of alcohol can save your arse bit *not too much!*, easier said than done tho haha

I find that negging and showing that you're not hitting on them, but you are an interesting, fun guy helps a lot with the old confidence.

Thanks guys!
All useful stuff!