No ... if you go I WANNA FUCK UR BRAINS OUT thats a plus.
u need to get the hen on ur team as in... "so then gorgeous... u know ur friend there!! and then continue, become part of the group.... u also need to show UTTER LEADERSHIP & DOMINANCE.
also.... a mother hen will drag her away if she can see her friend isnt enjoying the interaction... so maybe (and this is a maybe) you should look at how ur approach
PUA rahter than blamin sum1 else