Hey so I went for my 1st International pick up this weekend and it was great fun.
I went to to Warsaw, Poland with Remedy P+R and met up with some of the PUAs this wonderful country has to offer. Here is how it went....
So the first thing that struck me when I met Remedy's brother and his GF was that they knew I was a '
PUA' (haha maybe I'm overselling myself a bit there, so they knew I met Remedy on a website on how to pick up women....)! No one apart from you guys, know I am doing this and I found this very odd that the 'norms' new what i was doing. However, we got on fine and this didn't seem to bother them. In fact they were a lot more positive about the whole pick up thing by the end of the weekend.
Then I met some Polish PUAs (PPs). They focus on improving yourself to the point where girls are just attracted to you and you don't need any routines or anything. I like there thinking and am similarly minded. They were all very cool and accommodating.
The first day I spent with one of the PPs,as Remedy had to do passport stuff. Now I find it a bit strange when I first go sarging with any
PUA, but this had the added factor of we didn't have the same native language. However, one Subway breakfast later and the standard question 'so what got you into this?', we were getting on great and went sarging....
Day game and Poland, crash and burn crash and burn crash and burn! The majority of sets just looked at me blankly as I spoke in foreign jibberish to them. The ones that did understand still weren't digging my exotic tongue and no-one could tell me what I should be doing in Warsaw or teach me Polish phrases. One tried to teach me 'Mirror Mirror on the wall, you are the cutest of them all', but languages have never been my strong point and saying this to her would have been a blatent lie anyway!
Remedy did number close one girl successfully who did come to join us later too. Well done Remedy. Me, I was spirally into a land of negatively and loneliness.
However, night game was coming and I needed a pick up. I broke my recent code of abstinence while sarging and had a few drinks with the PPs (if I can't drink on holiday when can I drink right?). I was also smoking too which is bad, can make me very bad on the pull sometimes! Anyways in this situation I felt good and onto the club.
1st set opened, real hot, but far to drunk, but really digging me.....hmmm but engaged. Hmm maybe use her for social proof later instead.
Set 2 Remedy and I opened a 2 set. Whilst Remedy got on well with his one, I awkwardly had a conversation neither I nor the girl understood, whilst I secretly yearned for Remedy's girls breasts that were plumply resting on the table opposite me.
Ok here come the PPs and there about to dance floor game. This is what i came to see (Remedy had told me there are great at this). We all get in a circle and I don't quite know what's going on, but there is a lot of energy surrounding us and then I spy all sorts of proximities aorund us. The PPs are quick to act and started just grabbing girls by the truck load and literally dumping them in our circle and other PPs start dancing with them. Was quite cool to watch.
Next thing I notice, they are all doing Ceroc, awesome! My 4 beginner lessons of this Salsa, Tango, Jive style fusion are about to pay off! Woohoo. so I then grab a girl and proceed to show all the might of my 7 or so dance moves. She is bedazzled! Or maybe not she has gone. Crap! Oh no wait she is here again with her friend and now I'm showing her friend beginner move number 3 as well. Remedy is busy busting a move with my original one. We then swap again. We some how lose them and I go and do this with a couple more sets. This is cool I can open anyone without even opening my mouth!
Later I am going through the club and I bump into someone. It is the 1st dance girl again. She is real cute still so i sit down and start chatting. Luckily she has lived in the UK for a year so this doesn't pose too much of a problem.
I then do something amazing. Instead of trying to impress her with chat I make sure she is always the one that breaks the silence, she is the one who breaks eye contact and I am slowly upping micro-escalation. The sexual tension is building rapidly. I had read this earlier in the following report and believe me this is powerful stuff.
READ THIS NOW EVEN IF YOU IGNORE THE REST OF MY POST:
The Seducer's Anti-Manifesto | The Seducers
and this
http://60yearsofchallenge.files.word...ation-vibe.pdf
Ok and we're back and if you remember sexual tension was at a high and bang the kiss just happens so easily. We then do this a lot. I nibble her next she sticks her tongue down me ear in the most sexual way I have ever experience someone do this. We go of to some where more secluded, we kiss even more intimately, I play with her tits, she caresses my chest and back, Remedy P&R comes to take pictures of us. Its great. Now its time to leave.
So outside the club and I an unsure of if she wants me to come back with her or not. So I get her number just in case. Big mistake!! Her, her friend, her friend's pull of the evening who probably hasn't asked for her number all start saying good bye. No wait I want to fuck you I think....
LESSON LEARNT: Never number close as your leaving with a girl. It brings closure to the evening. Either get her number earlier on or the following morning! At this point I was gutted I had missed my chance....
But all is not alos we have a 'Day 2' next afternoon, ok , so maybe I should of n closed earlier but all is good again. We have a very romantic date in Warsaw Park that is unfortunately ruined a bit by her non-English speaking friend telling her in Polish she is bored. COCK BLOCKSKI!!!
So she leaves again without even a kiss close and I am sad again. Man I need to be less focused on outcome and look for less external validation (I am fully aware of this issue and working on it).
But gentlemen that evening we are back in action! We met at the same club and soon her tongue is back where it belongs! Even better Cock Blockski leaves!! This must be an International F closeski!
I say i want to go some where else, she complies. We walk around Warsaw for a bit, I develop a fantasy that I am a WW2 British soldier and she is a poor Polish girl who is going to hide me in her modest shelter. (I always develop odd fantasies such as these with girls, creative or weird not so sure - probably not that healthy for me but hey).
I say I want to go back to hers. She complies. We get a bus, we talk about dolphins, we get off the bus and we walk and we walk and we walk.....
Now we are at a Subway, hmmmmm, ok so 'good night', 'erm what little Polish Chica, we are going back to yours?' 'No, it is my friend' place, she doesn't' like this', I can sense this is not the reason, so I decide to be honest with her to see if I get some honesty back:
'Ok firstly, I think your worried about what might happen when we go back to yours. Let me tell you I never do anything that makes a girl uncomfortable. Secondly it is 3 a.m. and I haven;t a clue where the hell we are or where my place is'
'Yes ok, you promise nothing will happen'
'No, I promise I won't do anything that you do not feel comfortable with, ok?'
'Yes, ok'
So we walk for another eternity (I learn the next day that she lives about 20 minutes from the town centre, so assume this was some sort of delay tactics!?
However, we are back at hers and we start kissing standing. I try to put her on the bed, she resists, I back off, we kiss, she complies. This pattern continues for each item of clothing. Finally bra is off with a single left handed motion (personal goal achieved here!). She has the most amazing body. Time for the pants. I gently caress the areas around her pussy hoping to turn her on. I try to go in further and more resistance, hmmm, back off, back in, bite her cute little ass, kissing her pussy through her pants and then... more resistance, what the hell! A World War and several years of communism has certainly made sure these Poles are not push overs! Ok so back off and back in, a weak hand job from her and dry humping lots of dry humping, just 2 thin bits of cloth and 6 inches of Snake Eyes separate us from uniting as one! I go for the pants, resistance. It is 6 a.m. She likes me, this I know, she likes me alot I think, but she is clearly uncomfortable still. I made a promise! I will stick to it! I fall asleep, cock still erect, a tear rolls from my eye, I am back to War tomorrow and may never see this hotty again and more importantly as far as this country is concerned I am still a virginski!!!
Ok story over, now opinions on LMR please
I pushed a lot here. I could have pushed more, but tbh it takes the fun out been so methodical and I'm not sure how I feel about 'tricking' a girl into bed. I would be interested to know what you guys feel on this subject and your experiences in this area?