Being played ! !
 

Hey guys!!

Right, so I've been working on this girl for a few weeks now, worked a treat, mainly using the cocky comedy type stuff- shes always saying youre so mean, a bully blah blah...and we hooked up a few times

Yesterday, was going to see if she wanted to do something, said she couldnt as going out with some friends....talking to my sister this evening (theyre friends)...shes meeting the girl and her new date tonight!!

So....seems like the tables have turned!

What do I do!? :confused:

This is what you do.....'NEXT!' i.e. move on. Probably not what you wanted to hear but it's the truth.

haha yes...I thought that...dont want to be played! ha ha

BUT...what about the whole thing of them doing the same to us....i.e. a bit hypocrytical... us thinking 'damn her for playing me'...when we're doing the same, such as seeing more than one girl at a time

There's been s few debates on this forum about morality, do unto others, being honest, etc. I subscribe to the notion of being upfront from the very beginning i.e. honesty. Meaning I will tell the girl that I'm not looking for anything serious. Just a bit of fun. Unless you really want a serious relationship, then just be honest. Let her see other 'dates'. So what. You don't own her and not going out with her. Hope this helps.

Ah yes, I've read about the morality etc....its more that, I couldnt be annoyed at her for doing it, if I'm doing the same thing

I guess it was more that she lied about it really, so will let it go quiet for now I think

Gel her on. You don't want a girl who would date two guys at once.

MLTRs are for guys. Don't give up your man power.

OK I ALWAYS HAVE RELATIONSHIPS ON THIS BASIS... all you do is just dont talk about stuff outside you. if she is on dates SO just be the best one she is dating. u can play the cocky routine TOO MUCH tho, they end up thinkin ur not assed. so somethin gotta give. Best thing DO NOT CALL HER FOR A FEW WEEKS...if she wants to know she will call u. THEN U KNOW. if not, think back to where it started to tail out... AND RE START

What do you mean by 'gel on her'

It never died down at all...I guess she's just a bit of a player!, we were going to see each other tonight, but I havent bothered to contact her now

Hustler is right, forget about her, just go out and approach every set in site,
if she's interested she will get in touch with you, let her do the chasing.
plus, you said your sister is friends with her....from my experience, these are usually the messy ones.

haha yes....I've seen her a few times, but she hasnt said anything...and I guess could get awkward with her being at my house (place) nearly everyday

Thanks Guys