Cocaine puts me in state
 

I am no master when it comes to pick up since my confidence to approach is non existent but I've noticed a way of getting girls interested in me and actaully want to talk to me. Sadly it involves having a few nose beers before a night out and isn't sustainable as a lifestyle but I didn't fully grasp what being 'in state' meant until the moment I took a few lines and approached a few 9s.

Last weekend I went out with 2 other mates to the club. Since I've wanted to go sarging ever since I read 'The Game' it was in the back of my mind. Anyway as soon as I walked into the club I had already had some gear and the music was too loud plus in my mind I just wanted to talk to a HB so I walked straight outside and approached my first set it was 3 girls there one was a HB 10 with an 8 and then the mother hen type who look like she'd cock block but the way I worked the set I felt amazing I talked to the 8 got the mother hen laughing and she complemented me then out of nowhere a random girl started to compliment me (not within this set some random other girl) and she was really good looking so I grabbed and kiseed her and she actaully liked what I did and got me a cig from.her friends. Then the 10 starts talking to me about work which was boring but I could tell she had interest. This sort of stuff never happens to me so I was in shock and I kind of burnt out by this point because it was an hour in and I felt myself sobering. Since I didn't know how to close and my 2 guy friends were only coming outside to check I was alright then disappeared it felt like I was on my own and I could feel myself getting weaker in her eyes so I left and went to thee other girls who gave me a cig earlier. We talked for abit then got her number and spent the last hour with my mates so no lay.

2 things I think I need to improve here:

- Less reliance upon coke/booze to get me into that frame next time
- an actaul wingman who knows what I'm doing since I don't tell them I was sarging but also if I did they aren't the type to do that or they could've helped me in that situation

Any pointers as to getting in/staying in frame ?

Start the warming up (approach) before even enter the club and that will help you a lot. Also, try some daygame.
Alcohol/drugs = enemy of the game

Regards

The Professor

Went through a coke phase in my second year of uni. Made out with a ton of girls in clubs but got laid very inconsistently. Amped up people are fun to make out with, but being all coked up isn't gonna get a group of people feeling cool around you over a period of hours, and it sure as shit won't make people feel comfortable going back home with you. Unless they're coked up too of course.

The concept of state is pretty much bullshit in terms of game. Tyler stole the idea from a Tony robbins seminar, got nothing to do with game. Also, alcohol is fine and daygame is for dorks

People always think I'm coked up without being on anything. Except for a bit of alcohol. What must I have been like when I actually was taking it.

No it's not. But I suppose it can depend on what exactly is being done..

If I see a gorgeous girl pass me and we exchange a friendly - or more - look, then having a big set of balls and talking to her, getting her number with the probability of taking her out or simply meeting her again. What could possibly be wrong with that.

If it's being done whilst wearing hidden spy cameras in the fake sunglasses hanging off your T-shirt recording everything so you can go analyse it and post it on the internet, then yeah, weird and creepy etc.

Alcohol is fine but it would be even greater if you could be a "fun" and social person without drinking. That's impressive nowadays. Also for me, game in the clubs and bars is too easy because girls go there to get picked up. If you say the right words and you are not an awkward freak then you will have plenty of sex from night game. On the other hand, daygame is quality game because women don't expect to get hit during the day so that's make it interesting. You go up to her and you have some quality talk. That's a real skillset for me. Also in the daygame I meet the MOST beatiful women because they are not covered wity make up and most importantly I can see their face and decide if I like it or not.
In the club/bar a lot of times you fall in the "trap" of the light, which you can't tell if a woman is actually pretty and sometimes you end up sleeping with a beauty and waking up with a beast.

Regards,

The Professor

Fair, I'll rephrase. Doing daygame like it's a thing is for dorks

No.


Peace,

kowalski

Everyone with his opinion. I enjoy both games but I noticed that I have more fun in daygame. That's just me. :)

Regards

The Professor

That's not what you said.


Peace,

kowalski

I said that in my opinion daygame is quality game. Also for me game in the clubs is easier than daygame.

Regards,

The Professor