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Default 07-10-2018, 05:58 PM

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Exclamation First number close and 9 approaches - 21-10-2018, 06:16 PM

Well, another successful Sunday.

On Saturday, I only managed two compliment approaches. One on a stationary target and one on a moving target, which was better. But there weren't very many single ladies out on Saturday it seems.

My second approach was a lot stronger than my first, but after that I just didn't see many targets at all so relaxed.

On Sunday, I set out to do more of the same, go in, stop the target, compliment in broad daylight in front of everyone and then try to keep things going from there.

I made a total of nine approaches, 5 of which were strong ones, the other 4 were throwaway approaches.

The results of the unsuccessful approaches were one complete blank, one carrying on and saying "yeah, okay" to my compliment of "you look good" and one foreign pair who didn't speak English so didn't understand what I was doing.

I had 5 successful approaches though, I actually met a friend who knew about, but didn't practice, day game.

He acted as my wing and encouraged me to approach. I believe this helped as I wanted to show my approaching skills in action. I stopped a few in the street, including one who was on her way to her boyfriend, she still appreciated the approach despite that and was quite smiley and giggly.

This definitely gave me a well needed day game boost.

I think I have found my daygame style:

The forward gentleman

This is to be very direct and approach opening with a compliment. It's more about the body language of the approach than what you say though. Once I've got their attention then I go with something like "I must look good". And be confident in saying that, almost to the point of reducible. Even if they look like chavs I don't change my approach. It is what it is. Some will like it, some will find it weird. That's fine by me.

Well anyway, I approached a tall but young (she was still at college) girl who for whatever reason was quite receptive.

I offered her for a coffee and she said she wasn't quite sure, so I let her get on her way.

Then I saw her again and re approached her. There was quite a lot of silence between us talking, she didn't have a lot to say for herself and she was shy.

Her face was caked in makeup but she had a banging body and long legs at 5'10 I'd estimate.

The second time I approached she just seemed to stick with me, I moved her to sit down on a bench where we sat for about 20 minutes making intermittent chat.

She was also wearing a kind of braless top which left her nipples exposed from the side, to which I jokingly pointed out "You're nipple's showing by the way) to which she said "It's okay". So she obviously wasn't at all offended by me noticing that

Then I suggested we go to the bus station where the buses go to her town (she was from the next town along) so we walked together there.

At this point, I didn't know what to do in terms of kino, plus I had my shopping bags with me anyway, so I didn't hold her arm or anything.

Then at the bus station I told her I was gonna make a move but that I'd take her phone number down and text her next weekend asking her about that coffee.

So I saved her number, she saved mine, I touched her on the shoulder and said bye.

I felt like I should have kissed her on the cheek but with other people at the bus stop it would have felt a bit forced and awkward.

Plus she really didn't say much, she just seemed kinda happy to hang around me.

If there was one thing I wanted to do it would have been more kino, because it all felt a bit too platonic.

But yeah, I don't really mind what goes on from here on out, whether she replies or doesn't reply, I'm just happy that I've reached this milestone, but I don't think it will make me more confident unless it happens more frequently.

She was hot and she clearly didn't mind me seeing parts of her anatomy, but I am really clueless as to how to escalate if I see her again.

So next weekend, more approaching.
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Default 07-11-2018, 10:14 PM

Not a very eventful few weeks unfortunately.

The number didn't reply back, thinking of giving it another chance but can't really be bothered.

Had a work place incident as well. So far, work has been a kind and safe haven for me to chat to a few females without approaching them.

I saw a new good looking female on Friday and approached her immediately for a coffee, she made her excuses but I thought she wanted me to chase a bit so I struck up a conversation again today and offered her to lunch.

When I offered her to lunch I felt a creepy vibe immediately before doing so but I pushed myself to the limit to achieve the objective. She rejected again but in a more awkward way, that was when I realised she was just trying to be nice the first time round.

She's obviously snaked me and reported me to her manager who has then spoken to my manager (lots of different companies on a power station) and my manager has asked me to stop approaching.

Obviously I have no choice but to stop or get fired if it happens again. My manager was only doing his job, feminism is to blame, not him.

But I feel like I wish I'd used that second approach on one of the other potential targets instead of wasting it on an ungrateful little bitch.

There are a couple more potential targets in that work place but I can't risk approaching again.

What would a pick up artist do in such a frustrating situation? I feel stifled and resentful of women again, just when I was beginning to get out of that
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