Singles party.

[tebbs]

hello

havent done a FR for a long time, But thought it might help some of the newbies.

So a few of us last night (about 6) went to a mid week social last night. link : Midweek Social Success Story – The Original Daily - London's Dating Blog

Wide range last night from total beginners (2 guys) to intermiediate / advanced, (the other 4) So thought i type a few words as it might be useful to people, excuse my bad grammer, never did well at school !!!

The 2 beginners came with me, and the other intermiediates went of alone, they all number closed with no problems. I took the beginners as one is my buddy from work, and its brand spanking new to game.

So with out going into great depth and boring you, what we found was good for the beginners was it was good to show them the ropes, for example, I opened the first set (a 3 set of nurses) with a nice and simple "Hi, im steve, who are you guys" so at this point it was 3 of them and 3 of us. For those of you that have been around a while you know 3 on 3 is hard, its messy and in my opinion it doesnt work... alas it was a warm up set to show the guys how easy it was to open.

Id add at this point, as it was a singles night, so the way the girls where behaving wasn't completely congruent with a typical night in a bar... ie they had to be friendly.

Back to story, so at this point I was quite happily talking to the group, the other 2 guys where standing there like lemons, not knowing what to do, and to be honest i was running the set, so not much they could do. I then noticed when i had reached hook point, with one them, the uglyest in the group ... ie started asking me questions, hair flicks, started rubbing her arm. So I purposely broke rapport. And said we had to go. I said something of the lines of "we going to mingle some more" Old chubby chops, started asking more questions.... we stayed a bit longer and ejected on purpose..

So this was to show the newbies, how to break rapport, and how effective it can be. Also i explained to the guys, if youre winging and i open a three set I should really take 2 of the girls, and the other 2 guys should take the final one girl left, ie chubby chops.

So then we had a bit of a mingle and I wanted to show the guys the claw on a moving target which i did, we then had the girl 3 guys and one girl, so I ran the girl, it went terribly, we were both like chalk and cheese.. Also, the 2 newbies stood there again like lemons. Not good. I spoke for about 5 mins, the poor girl was boxed in by 3 guys, I felt really sorry for her.

After that episode I explained again to the newbies, if its a single set you guys have to fuck off around the other side of the bar and leave the wing to it. Theres no other way of doing it. They then realised what they did wrong, and how they had messed it up for me a bit. no worries its a learning curve.

I then told them, ok now im going to open direct (what I normally only do) and you'll see how powerful it can be, but I then explained to them, they have to leave me alone with the girl, and take her friend.

So I saw a real cuttie, about 5ft 2, blonde and very cute. Just my type as im only 5ft 5ft. Out came the opener " Hey, I saw you walk in the bar, I thought you looked absolutly gorgoues, I had to come and say hello, Hi im Stevie"

At this point, and as I explained the newbies later, 2 things happened, (as they nearly always do when you go direct.)

Firstly the girls face dropped, and she smile nervously and looked down, she looked back up beaming and "nervously said hi my names natalie"

Secondly her friend who was with her, walked off to the side, did the newbies take the friend like I told them... no they stood chatting. Luckily her friend went to the bar another guy opened her and she must of trusted me with her friend. I spoke to the girl, number closed and let her get back to her friend. She only just got into the bar, and I kind of jumped on her... alas a number close is a number close and that was my first one of the night.

I then explained to the wings, they MUST MUST MUST take the friend, always for me, otherwise shes just going to pull her friend out. I was lucky it was a singles night, and the aim was for guys to be talking to girls, had that of been in a normal bar, i would of been in trouble.

So that ended the "training" session, by this time, my friend from work newbie where getting excited, he never open a set in a bar, and I saw a perfect set, I told him, just go in and say "hi im lee, how it going"

Lee went in on a lovely 2 set, he spoke to them for about 10 mins, then he made a little slip up... at the singles night they where running speed dating as well, " i over heard him say "come on lets go and do the speed dating, although he had number closed them"... a rookie mistake... Afterwards i explained to him that every man in this bar is a threat, all of them.. and you ask took them to meet about 20 of them... you should of iscolated to the seats around the side, or called me in to take the fatty while you escalate..

Hindsight is a wonderful thing, and considering it was hes first ever cold approach, (sort of, it was a singles night) he had opened, created rapport and number closed, the girl actually said to him "why did you wait so long to get my number" I explained to him, thats a lovely 24 carot gold ioi on a plate for you. we them those ioi's. I was so pleased for newbie, I remembed my first open 3 years ago, and how I number closed from it, Lovely stuff. felt proud of him. His state had also gone the roof, I then explained what state was, and off he went opening some more, a changed man. I also explained you can do the exact same thing in a normal bar, "hi im lee hows it going"

15 mins later or so, I did my second direct approach of the evening. I saw another little short blonde around the other side of the bar, i walked off after her, and went direct, same thing again "Hi I saw you across the bar, i thought you where stunning and had to say hello, hi im steve" once again, the friend who was with her, saw and heard what happened, and left me with her friend, the friend turned around and was taken by another guy... Lovely...thank you very much I take this one. I chatted her up, and this one caused some debate afterwards...I did what I never do, I mentioned I would love to take her on a date, and How I like to do exciting more interesting things, ie, london rib speed boat, zoo lates, going up the shard, comedy store, going to Ping! in hammersmith. Now, ive always been told NEVER mention dates, however after experiening alot of flakes recently I though fuck it, i change it around and mention dates and where I wanted to go. I also arranged a time to call her... Monday night. Ive never in 3 years done that, so we see what happens

I number closed her, we arranged to meet up next thursday to go to Ping!, She liked the fact i worked for easyJet and get free tickets, her face lit up then when I told her i go away quite alot for 20 quid.IOI. although I dont like that ioi. I knew exactly what she was thinking, ill have some of them as well...same old story I get quite a lot. I also told her I was taking my mum away to Corfu ( a risky one that one) and she though that was lovely and though all men should look after their mums. IOI. and I said quite directly "right I want a kiss come on"... i got one. simple, its amazing what you can get if you ask !!!

Then finally to end the report, I reopened the first set of nurses again, and chubby chops was all over me like a rash, I gamed hre a bit, Felt a bit of a cunt to be honest, I started chatting her up, i was about the number her for the hell of it, I was a bit pissed by this point. I then kicked myself and though, what the fuck are you doing number closing for the sake of it, the other 2 chicks might see you do it, and whats the point, just to validate yourself.

This thus ends my FR, 2 number closes, 2 cuties, both from direct game. I hope the report helps the newbies of a new basics..

Of the 6 of us, 4 if us number closed. and my mate who is brand shiny new is about to start the best journey ever of his life.

cheers

steve

[Shahanshah]

Cool report, what's your definition of beginner, intermediate and advanced?

[daleinthedark]

Beginner - Shah
intermediate - Tebbs
advanced - Daleinthedark

[Shahanshah]

Hahaha I'm a p-i-m-p maddafakka

[tebbs]

for me, and its only my opinion from what happened to me, and what ive seen in 3 years.

1.beginner, can open a set, but looks nervous and sketchy,runs out of things to say, isnt calibrated, ie last about 5 mins in set, cant handle large groups ie 5 sets and replies on canned material, cant create attraction. has say 1 in to 10 numbres come back.

2.Intermiediate. Can open easily, can even go straight into rapport, and chat for however long is needed, doesnt matter it its a 1 set or a 5 set, but needs the help of a wing when you start losing the set. Can create attraction, but cant iscalate properly. Can number close properly, but due to not iscalating properly get maybe 5 out of 10 numbers back. Have a few sucesses under your belt, and have a few things going on pussy wise.

3.Advanced, in the 3 years ive been doing this, ive been out woth maybe 30 wings, puas or whatever you want to call it. Ive only ever seen 1 guy "blow me away" with what they did, ie they walk around the bar opening EVERYONE with abolsute total ease, all the sets dig him, they can deal with amogs, i saw him with 3 fucking huge rugby lads amogs, they where fucking massive, and he took the chick off them) this 22 year old has bedded 70 plus girls and is a machine, he walks in to resturants and sits down with groups of 10 women and closes... he waits outside boots and fucked the make up girl in the park on her way home. hes had threesomes and is now bored of fucking at the age of 22. trust me, he is advanced and i dont car eif your adam lyons or la ruina, even they arent like this bloke.. and hes 22..