Day game Diary
 

Hi guys,

Today I am holding myself accountable for at least 5 direct day game approaches. The last day game session I did was Dec 12, 2016 in London. I am expecting myself to be a bit rusty. I want to focus on word association, having a laugh and finally facing social pressure. I will be doing it in a town where there are very few PUA's so have a slight apprehension about the reactions I might get. However I accept the possibility that I might get a few strange looks or wtf reactions. I will calibrate to the situation as necessary. I will approach between 3.30 and 4. So 30 minutes to do 5 approaches. A hit and run as it were :)
My opener will be a variant of: "Excuse me can I tell you something? I know this might sound crazy but I just had to come over and say you look really nice" then go into an assumption about her (the crazier the better).

I will report back how it went.

enlighten me Kowalski, how do your plans look like? :rolleyes:

So I'm happy with how today went I was feeling tired after a leg workout. I was dithering a lot, a lot of it in my head, the environment was very quiet and I wasn't really used to it (I'm used to the hustle and bustle of London) so I felt a lot of social pressure.

Eventually went into a mall, opened a girl sitting on a bench semi-direct "you don't look like your from around here" at first she looked a bit taken aback but then the conversation started to flow. She even number closed me ;). Tomorrow we will be going on an adventure together to a waterfall (sure what else would you do in Ireland?!)

After the success I was feeling great, but I could not push myself to keep going (it was getting dark and targets where dying out).

I spotted a nice enough looking girl but as I ran to stop her she turned into a shop. Same with another girl. Damn. I am still happy with what I did and how well the approach went.

What I learnt:
You need a "fuck it" attitude when you are by yourself. Really embrace the perceived social suicide your brain is telling you you are committing. Keep telling your brain "fuck it" as you approach. After first good approach you will get into social mode. Social mode is when your mind switches from a state of avoidance to proactively seeking out targets. I live for this mode :)

Audit activity..don't cram into time slots.

Yes good point indeed. I guess if I do that I will actually want to get the approaches out of the way quickly instead of taking them as far as they can go.

Good point mate