LR - Street to sex, about 4 hours.

[SashaPua]

Hey thought you guys might enjoy this. Apologies if the spacing is a bit fucked up, I'm copying and pasting from my blog.

March 16th
Street to sex- about 4 hours.

Ok, so last Saturday I had a student. After our dinner break I said to him “Ok, 5 more approaches and we’ll wrap up!” …. And on his 4th approach I set him onto this cute semi oriental girl. I could tell she was a half cast. As soon as he opened her, I could also tell that she was extremely open and friendly. Of course, I’m kicking myself like “ugh! That should have been a DEMO set!” ….

Well, I’ve got a new opener for Instructors. “Hey, I just had to come talk to you… If I’d have quit after you blew my student out, I’d have been kicking myself all day.” … hahaha

No, but seriously – I’ve noted before that NOT re-opening sets just because someone else has is stupid. I’ve done it before – but then I fall back into not doing it.

This can cost you some quality girls - and maybe your future ex wife! So, here's a Couple of lines you can use if this happens to one of you

1) Oh no! Did you break my friend's heart? I think he liked you!
2) OMG did you know that guy? Did that guy just try and pick you up? I thought I was the only guy that approached random cute girls on the street!
3) Oohh that didn't look like it went well. What was his line? Let me guess (turn/walk away - then turn back towards girl "Hey, .... you must be tired... you've been running thru my mind allll night! "


So, that being said – I re-open this girl. All I had to say was that I’m a comedian and we’re going to be filming bloopers of men approaching women… and that was that. In the past, I’ve told them that I teach PU and that I wanted feedback on how my student has done. Women are open to this – and flattered that they were picked as a “target babe” …. Lol. It’s just all about your frame. If you act like it’s cool, it’s cool! It's amazing how honest you can be, and how much you can get away with...

Anyways – I chat with her for a few minutes and she’s very chilled, relaxed. Sweet!! But, I have to wrap up with my student. I say to her, “gimmie your number, I’ll be free in 15 minutes” … she does and I head back.

I do my wrap up in the coffee shop, then call her and say to her to come over in around 20 minutes… (I had to phone/text some other girls to arrange stuff)
She shows up. We have a nice long chat… she’s very friendly and warm. We spoke honestly on a broooaaaaaad range of topics. Question game ensues…. She answers everything without hesitation. She’s a good girl, only hooked up with 4 guys!! Pretty much all boyfriends except one. She’s 23. Recently became single. She lives in a small town a couple of hours away. She works for the man. As we’re chilling, she gets a call from her friend. He friend is very sick and isn’t going to be able to come out after all. Ah – when it’s revealed that her friend’s a guy she says “don’t’ worry, it’s not my BF” which is an IOI – not that I really needed any more than I was already getting. Anyways, I go to kiss her on the cheeck and she moves her head in for the kiss – so we make out. She’s got very nice lips and is a great kisser indeed!!

God – it’s so easy – you just go for a kiss on the cheeck and the girls that want to make out will move their head in for it. It’s a joke. Why hadn’t anyone told me this when I was 15? Fack.
After that I start making jokes about how we’re going to be making sweet love. I think I pretty much said we should go and have fun later on. She said “I don’t plan those kind of things in advance!” …. I always make jokes about how I’m going to make sweet love to girls… pretty much whether “it’s on” or not. Mainly it amuses me… but it’s kind of a future projection too, hehe.
We go for a walk. I tell her we should go to mine and watch a film… I mention my friend is there but he’s got to go out at nine. She says “well, I’ll probably leave at nine” …. She knows she’s not leaving, but she says that as a possible way out. And not to feel slutty. I reveal to her my polyamorous views and she likes them a lot. She says to me “I like sex a lot, and I generally just have a boyfriend so I can have sex” ….
I said something like “gee… you don’t seem like you want it that bad for a girl that loves it!” … her reply “I could be convinced….”
I wasn’t actually that horny as I got some the night before with a FB, Either I’m getting old, or somethin worse. I didn’t actually care if I got laid or not – yikes!! This needs to be investigated.
One thing I learned: Couch sex is fun!! I had her on her knees facing away, over the couch. That’s hot cuz you can bite the neck and reach around for the boobs. Hot stuff!! Then she wants to do it on the floor!! I just didn’t have any mojo left…. Damn. She had to split, to spend a bit of time with her friend.
Awesome, I didn’t even have to throw her out. She threw herself out!!
ANywho: Getting this girl back took little game. I knew this was a hot lead when I saw her reaction to being opened. It’s all about how up for it the girl is. Then, you just need minimal game to make it go down. All I did was ignore a couple of little anti-slut comments…

I’m starting to think game is more about finding the right girl, than anything else. Which brings me back to – opening actually the most important part... I feel like I’m going around in circles!!
It really is amazing the variance in the levels of sexual openess for girls. I mean – it’s really truly amazing. Question is: Can you take a girl who’s a prude, and turn her into one of the sexually liberated types? Is that possible? Shouldn’t it be? If you can turn an AFC into a PUA … then it definitely should be. Maybe the problem is, it would just take a lot of time.

Maybe that’s the question: Look for the girls that are easy to bed? Or work on your game so you can bed any girls? Or, just find the girls you really like, and go to bed with them – whether it’s easy, or hard. Yea – that’s the one… that’s gotta be the one….

[BlueSteal]

Great FR dude!

Or, just find the girls you really like, and go to bed with them – whether it’s easy, or hard. Yea – that’s the one… that’s gotta be the one….

Read the individual and how the interaction is going, and escalate accordingly. That's what seperates pick up artists from "players".

[nova]

The following sections I found rather disturbing as a mindset of a Pickup teacher:

Originally Posted by SashaPua

As soon as he opened her, I could also tell that she was extremely open and friendly. Of course, I’m kicking myself like “ugh! That should have been a DEMO set!”

Originally Posted by SashaPua

Well, I’ve got a new opener for Instructors. “Hey, I just had to come talk to you… If I’d have quit after you blew my student out, I’d have been kicking myself all day.” … hahaha

Originally Posted by SashaPua

So, here's a Couple of lines you can use if this happens to one of you

1) Oh no! Did you break my friend's heart? I think he liked you!
2) OMG did you know that guy? Did that guy just try and pick you up? I thought I was the only guy that approached random cute girls on the street!
3) Oohh that didn't look like it went well. What was his line? Let me guess (turn/walk away - then turn back towards girl "Hey, .... you must be tired... you've been running thru my mind allll night! "

What kind of 'instructor' or ‘wing’ are you? You are kicking yourself as you thought you should be the one hitting on the chick and not your student. You don’t seem happy for him to be the one hitting on a hot chick, even though he’s the one paying for your help. Where’s the pride your teaching? Also, how about helping your fellow man, rather than taking the left overs from what’s already been opened up.

So here, for us, you have in essence shared - a tactical guide on how to take advantage once a student has warmed up the target. A guide on how to feed off the student.

Let’s stop using/teaching to game with crutches and tactics and start thinking about how we can fly solo as men.

[Hustler25]

Agreed Nova.

Although to be honest I didn't read the rest of the OP, it lost me here;

'I re-open this girl. All I had to say was that I’m a comedian and we’re going to be filming bloopers of men approaching women' then saying;

'In the past, I’ve told them that I teach PU and that I wanted feedback on how my student has done. Women are open to this – and flattered that they were picked as a “target babe” …. Lol. It’s just all about your frame. If you act like it’s cool, it’s cool! It's amazing how honest you can be, and how much you can get away with...'