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daleinthedark 30-04-2016 12:43 PM

daleinthedark has fun or something
 
Next month I turn 30 and right now I am single after exiting what became and abusive marriage. On the good side I find myself having an awesome pad, a job/career that I really enjoy, I'm in great shape and life it otherwise good.

I thought I'd share a little bit of my day-to-day interactions with other people (namely girls) because I find it interesting to read when other guys do it and maybe I'll mark some self improvement and get some introspective nuggets for myself...

daleinthedark 30-04-2016 12:54 PM

Last night I went for a 5 7 with my colleagues (afterwork drinks)

One thing that really helps my game in Quebec is La Bise (here in Quebec it's just 2 - one on each cheek). Because it's standard in social situations it means that you automatically touch a woman as standard. From here if I am attracted I will leave a hand on the forearm, or touch again frequently and ever increasingly affectionately if the attraction appears mutual.

Last night this was the case, work mates and their friends who joined us. Rather conveniently an attractive friend of a friend sat next to me and the touching and conversation escalated from there. It helps that I have a rather neutral British accent which people find attractive.

One point I'm at the bar and some guys sit down either to make moves or to get in on the patio heater. I return, introduce myself, take back my seat and they back off. I didn't ask, I just acted whereas in previous years I would have addressed it verbally. This set a tone of healthy respect as opposed to pissy jealousy... I'm interested to see how it repeats in the future

It gets to late evening and things are getting a little touchy so I grab her hand and tell her I'm walking to the tube/metro and she just follows as we both know whats happening...

daleinthedark 01-05-2016 01:11 AM

Fuck yes
 
A friend shared this article with me from Mark Manson.

It's called fuck yes and I like the philosophy it's advocating. If you don't feel fuck yes about things or people, don't get involved.

daleinthedark 09-05-2016 06:23 PM

I like to take the opportunities IRL as well as dabbling a little online.

I'm not built like an adonis so Tinder isn't as fruitful as I'd like but OkCupid and PoF work pretty well for me

Since I posted this article here, I've had to change my tact a little as now any girl who decides to google my first message or profile is lead straight to either other guys, this forum or re-posted article elsewhere. If anything I'm glad so many people got so much from it.

Recently I've been playing around and having fun. I went with:
http://s32.postimg.org/s22ajqo1x/1st_Message.jpg
Which got such a better response than I'd hoped as a lot of girls tend to avoid messages which could have been easily copied and pasted

Topas357 10-05-2016 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by daleinthedark (Post 99715)
One thing that really helps my game in Quebec is La Bise (here in Quebec it's just 2 - one on each cheek).

In France we do 4 in some region, mine does :D (La Bretagne)



Quote:

Originally Posted by daleinthedark (Post 99799)
I like to take the opportunities IRL as well as dabbling a little online.

I'm not built like an adonis so Tinder isn't as fruitful as I'd like but OkCupid and PoF work pretty well for me

I gave a try to PoF, didn't work great for me, the time investment you need to put is humongous compared to Tinder. I already don't feel like I have time for Tinder... Didn't try OkCupid, what's the concept?

I liked Bumble but got bored. Should give it another try I think.

Problem is, on the proportion, girls on social dating app are less attractive and crazier (got some crazy stories from Tinder dates lol) than the one I get from Day Game.

daleinthedark 11-05-2016 09:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Topas357 (Post 99809)
I gave a try to PoF, didn't work great for me, the time investment you need to put is humongous compared to Tinder. I already don't feel like I have time for Tinder... Didn't try OkCupid, what's the concept

Tinder to me feels like too much hard work plus I aint pretty enough for it ;)

OkCupid is similar to PoF that it's a free service but it requires a little more investment as it has questionnaires etc... That said because of that investment in time, people are more active on it, maybe a little more serious, but ultimately more responsive

Quote:

Originally Posted by Topas357 (Post 99809)
Problem is, on the proportion, girls on social dating app are less attractive and crazier (got some crazy stories from Tinder dates lol) than the one I get from Day Game.

No stranger than in real life although it's easier to misrepresent yourself online...

You should share your stories!

markuk 12-05-2016 07:12 AM

Sorry to read about the breakup but looks like i was for the best.
However really looking forwards to reading this thread !

Topas357 12-05-2016 07:55 AM

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Originally Posted by daleinthedark (Post 99817)
You should share your stories!

I will think about posting some soon, I already wanted to start a diary as well but I had a rough start on here.

Got 2 same day lay last 2 weekends and 2 or 3 crazy tinder stories... I might give it a try.

daleinthedark 24-05-2016 03:27 PM

Friday night I hit a comedy club for a giggle followed by my favourite bar with a workmate.

Going to the comedy club got me in the mood, good jokes and light heckling put me in a great mood. When I hit the bar afterwards, the barmaid remembered my name and my pint making me feel like it my local! The sucky thing about the city is that the metro here closes at 12.30 always cutting my night short.
I wasn't really out for pulling but I watched the band and chatted to the passers at the bar. I had some great conversations with guys and girls and came away with 2 numbers. Not really too fussed for follow ups.

The pub is an Irish pub with a bad that does some great covers - the highlight of my evening was this older couple who got up to dance and everybody just jigged with them and took it nice a slow - smiles all round.

daleinthedark 24-05-2016 07:29 PM

Sunday it was my 30th Birthday So I headed to a Dance music festival called Piknik Electrik. Made some friends, had some beers and headed downtown afterwards with one of them. It was a bank holiday weekend so i was expecting it to be heaving - the town was dead!

It's worth noting that I'd dropped 2 tabs of molly (wasn't planned just went with it) and I'm feeling great for it.

Head into the bar and clock 2 cute girls at the bar. We're chatting and they instantly dig the English accent and we get into a good groove whilst my friend is taking 5 at a table. So I'm trying to decide which girl I should go for. One is outgoing and definitely on if I want it. The other is quieter, shy but I'm more attracted to her. I go with the one I'm more attracted too.
Note: they're both American which usually works better for me for some untold reason, particularly at this pub.

I think some of it was partly the MDMA but for the next 4 hours I had one of the best times getting to know this girl just talking, giggling and connecting. She was quite self conscious but given a little time it was worth it.
I was disappointed it didn't lead to a night-time excursion, I think if I'd pushed a little harder it could have but I left with an invite next Month to New York so we'll see...

I wasn't really sure how my birthday would be as most of my friends were out of town. Bar going home alone, everything else was tip top...


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