So I've seen the Latina girl twice more before she disappeared to Calgary.

She usually shows up with weed which I actively shared with her a couple of times (a new experience for me) one of those being during sex.

I've also been hooking up with an asian chick I met in a gay club. Fun and open but very intense - I get the feeling she wants more...

I mentioned a couple of weeks back about a colleague with whom I'd been fooling around with but then was made her manager. Since then we haven't fooled around further.
I had to discipline her the other week - she fucked up and had to take responsibility. She was given the most minor punishment (informal discussion/warning) offered further training and everything was based around facts. Still at the end of the discussion she asked me "are you doing this because of us?"
My response was along the lines that I thought she knew I had more integrity than that and that I hoped we could work openly and well together as we always have.

I don't want this to become a problem...

Definitely. She's very attractive and the sex is amazing but she's also hot and cold which is fine by me as i see/saw it very much as a relationship of convenience. We get on very well for the most part.

Drawbacks, she's very petty in how she deals with people and things. Tit for tat, last words, revenge. Although we have never had any issues with our carnal relationship, she would not hesitate to blur the lines, i.e. stitch me up at work or withhold sex for perceived sleights against her.

I've stopped fooling around because she would like preferential treatment and I can't give that to her whilst holding onto my integrity. I also don't trust her to that end...

I guess bottom line, I want as little drama as possible

The past 2 weeks, I've been getting over a tonsillitis.

I knocked it on the head with the asian girl. She wanted more and I found despite being attracted to her, we lacked sexual chemistry and I felt like I was wasting my time.

I met an Irish waitress earlier in the week, she was serving me and another girl I was with a couple of weeks ago when we got into joking about how strange mirror sounds in a northern Irish accent and how she's been there a couple of months and didn't speak French. I was back and she recognised me then we shot the breeze before exchanging numbers. Didn't think it would go anywhere due to her being hit on constantly and she saw me with the other girl but she wants to grab a drink and practice French...

Situation with the girl at work has settled down. I think she wanted to push boundaries to find out what she could get away with. I've been firm and consistent with my expectations and friendly at work (as I am with all staff).

This week I have a date with an Irish girl, there's also a massive comedy festival on so I will catch some events and a massive music festival on Saturday. I'm off to Atlanta next Sunday, which I'm excited for...

The weekend before last was a music festival here called Osheaga; went with a group of 5 of us. I knew 2 pretty well but there was a friend of a friend who has/had a thing for me and won't let it drop.
She wouldn't leave me be and at first I tried to just avoid her (having already made my intentions clear that I wasn't interested). Cue late evening after I start chatting to some Americans, 2 guys & 2 girls and she again interrupts awkwardly and tries to engage me in 1-2-1 conversation. I call her out in her continued "clingy" pursuit of me which she denies, calls me an asshole and storms off. I apologised to our group for putting a bump in their evening and went off to do my own thing... it put me in a low mood but I felt a little more me.

I think I needed to be a little more clear in my intentions when I first told her. I was polite/diplomatic which I am unsure may have given her hope. I didn't want to be an arsehole about it but in the end I felt I didn't really have an option

I went to Atlanta for work last week which overall was pretty awesome. The people there are friendly and I gain a lot professionally from my peers...

My first night was a write off but the second day I was playing around with Tinder and got a hit. Was a curvy (full figure not chubby) 26 yr old who turned out to be a dinner lady. Thought she'd want to meet somewhere public but was quite happy just to come to my hotel. Learning from last time I open the door, take her hand to invite her in but pull her in close and kiss her. After a second of initial surprise she's down and we both ended up working the next day without sleep.

Third day I head out with some other guys who were also there. We go to this place called wild wings where there's these 2 guys playing hits and parodies on a piano. These guys (in my group) are dogs hitting on the trashiest women in the place. It was a real seedy bar and most of the women were there just to get guys to buy them drinks. We were approached 4 times and asked "Hey wanna buy us some drinks?"

4th Day We go play some golf at a high tech driving range. I'm shit but our waitress is hot and speaks French. She picks up on my accent and sees I live in Quebec and we start chatting about where she's visited and I tease her here and there about her Haitian accent in French. I offer her my number as we settle up later. She tells me she doesn't think so and heads off to another table.

Last night there and we head over to Wild Wings again. Tonight it's karaoke! I lay down Champagne Supernova and one of the guys looks at a table of women and tells us he thinks they're hairdressers. I head over and ask and they are. We talk and tease and thir friend sings. i pull one of them up and dance - the guys think I'm some kind of pulling machine but it's clear to me she's not that attracted. Our group go into their cigar lounge and by the time we get back the hair dressers have left. I chat t this girl and her mum as the guys head out. They know the waitress and when she IDs me (as is standard policy in GA for everyone regardless of looks) she talks about Montreals weed. I ask her if she smokes and then if she want to share. She's down. I drink some bubblegum cocktail and butcher a few more songs. We head back to the hotel smoke some weed, make out and sleep. Was a pretty nice end to the week

So last Friday I had an absolutely awesome start to my weekend;

I spent Thursday night over 1 of my regulars. She's a French girl who's a real giggle! She also likes to be treated aggressively which isn't something I have been super used to but I've enjoyed playing up and getting into. We have some early morning fun and I leave for the day.

The girl who I'd been fucking at work invites me for after-work drinks and given her leaving in 2 weeks I agree. 1 beer later and we're heading back to hers. I have to admit that despite being a live wire, she is probably the best sex I've ever had, our physical compatability is through the roof
Thought it would be an all night thing but she has a hen do to go to so I drop by my favourite bar to grab a beer and catch the band. After a few beers, the band start playing and hearing a song I like I jump up and grab a cute blonde girl also dancing. After she invites me to join her at the table with her dad, she apologises that her dad doesn't speak English but she'll translate but they seem happy when I break into French. Pretty much her dad wings me for the night as he takes a liking to me and we drop her dad home in the taxi back to mine...

I like how my confidence is improving into taking action and I'm really happy that my French is on point that I am now pursuing French girls who I would have originally let pass by due to my linguistic abilities...

Last night I got sucked off in the back of an Uber headed home before enjoying anal for the first time.

Good to see all is well Dale

Last weekend I met 2 Germans travelling. I was being all social and awesome at the bar, so when buying a drink I struck up a conversation with a girl visiting Montreal who I'd spoken to earlier that night (and who strangely seemed to be spending about 5-10mins with each group in the bar then moving) and the German girl she was speaking with had eyes so blue you could swim in them.

She turned out to be a massive Elvis fan which meant that she spoke English with a more American accent. Either way she was a real giggle and I grabbed a seat next to her, turned towards her so her knees were between mine on the stool. As we were talking I just started playing with her hand and when a convenient pause in the conversation came along, I kissed her.

Her other German friend was deep in conversation with another chap I'd introduced myself to earlier in the evening. He was lacking in game but you could tell he really wanted to chat up her friend. I tried to give him some pointers to just take her hand or dance with her (as it was clearly mutual) but he lacked the conviction to follow through.

Later in the night I think he was a little jealous of how well I was getting along and decided to up it a notch where he went from not having any physical contact to trying to touch her cheek and brush her hair back. I like to call this move the "0-60" because co-incidentally she had an expression on her face like he was driving at her in a truck.

I though as we were leaving at one point I might be in for a 3-some as the other girl seemed into me too but I think she was just being polite or unwilling to act upon it.

Either way when I'm back on home soil later this year I may take a jaunt to Germany...

I'm living vicariously through your field reports