DLs development diary
Ok, I am far from a PUA guru, so I figured it's best to start posting here. At least it will force me to think how to improve. Maybe I'll get also some opinions.
Was on Fri out after a sports meetup, we went for a drink to a bar nearby. Soon everyone but one lady disappeared -- she had to wait for her friend. I decided to be a gentleman and keep her company. We chatted a bit of this and that, and she soon started opening up about her life etc. Not a great deal, but a little. Her friend was a little late, so we spent there nearly an hour. Now, her friend arrives. I wasn't expecting much. A 1-in-a-1000 appears from the door. The perfect body, posture, beautiful teeth, lauging all the time. I try to leave as I think they may want to chat with each other, but the first lady asks me to stay. I end up sitting between them, asking how they met. They tell about a meetup where they ran into each other, tell a bit about it, we laugh about their experiences. My confidence is telling me at this point that this should not be happening, but it is. To be honest, I have no idea where to lead the conversation. The girls are interested about what I'm doing, I explain it, and we soon move to talk about the sports we did, what they do etc. Nothing, really. After a while, I start to notice that I don't want anything more than to keep the girls laughing, but I have absolutely no idea what to talk about. As I start feeling I have nothing left, and I would hate the vibe to end in me getting told "we have now some girl stuff to talk about", I excuse myself and leave. Good tips appreciated: - How do I keep two girls entertained for a longer time? In clubs you can disappear for a while and come back, but here you really would need to keep their interest for a few hours. I read at some point from Style's cubes etc. Should I be doing something similar? How do I avoid looking like a gimmicky magician (and repeating same stuff every PUA in London would've told the girls a 100 times)? - Two girls and me. How do I take it from here? Again, in a semi-empty pub where none of us knows anyone else, there's no way to get rid of one? Or is there? Or how do I close two girls at once? - How do I number-close the 1-in-1000, as her friend is there? Also, she told about her boyfriend, though didn't talk that highly of him. How do I sidestep this information? |
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As far as the boyfriend thing goes, that means one of two things. 1. She's not into you and she's trying to be polite and not hurt your feelings 2. She actually has a boyfriend If it's case 1, read the signal for what it is, socialise, have fun, but bear in mind she gave the standard social signal for letting you down lightly. If it's case 2 you also want to leave it out, even if you happen to be unprincipled enough to want to sleep with a girl who has a bf, you still want no part of the whole mess involved in that shit. |
Just to pull up some wonderful content from the past
Look at this thread here "Jaz's Ultimate Guide To Working A Two Set" |
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