Where did i go wrong?
Long story short:
Girl in my uni/college. Ive known her for like a year and a half now but never been in a situation where we spoke. Heard through a friend that she thought i was cute. Been making meaningful eye contact for a week or so, and finally approached her when she was alone. For some reason, eye contact went out the window for majority of the 4 minute conversation, instead of asking for her number i asked for something else (social media) to which she replied, i already have you on that? (i had asked for the wrong social media! great) So at this point i knew i had fucked up. After one or two random questions about her i said okay ill talk to you on X. Turns out she hasnt accepted my request. So, where to move on from here? I dont want it to be awkward since i see a lot of her so how should i smooth the failure out? |
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You fuck up by not taking action and being a little pussy. Quote:
Get comfortable talking to other girls. Get comfortable being the best you that you can be. Go on to live a happy life with this even as a distant memory. |
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Turns out she has a boyfriend.....But i sort of guessed she had beforehand just didn't care. But shes fucked me up nicely. I tried talking to her friend today. Seems like shes been talking about me quite a lot based on the reaction which equated to "annoying". |
Stop playing the victim. Stop blaming her for your emotions.
You need to be aware of your emotions but don't let them have control you. A massive part of being good with girls (and pretty much everything) is mindfullness. Do some research of mindfullness, you need it. This sort of reaction is also very passive aggressive, another thing which will repulse women. PS, everything kowalski & daleinthedark said is spot on. You really have a long journey ahead (if you decide to go on it). Get meeting new girls ! ;) |
Go game other girls and don't get oneiditis. And when you feel you naturally have abundance with girls, you will play it cool there will be no awkwardness and you won't fuck up.
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