Buses can be high pressure but only really at the start before you start chatting. If the conversation is flowing nicely it's easy enough to close.

Don't do it after a silence. Do it while you're both talking like when you or her have just finished or are nearly finished a sentence or whatever is being said, while it's high energy eye contact & smiles. Just pop in "we should exchange numbers so we can chat another time too"

Well, that's what I do.

recent progress.

Since i have become single i've had dates with 4 girls i have met out and about. 2 of the girls i didn't see again but i wasn't that bothered and two of the girl's i'm seeing at the moment.

Things to improve

Closing, escalating, stating intentions.

Last nights FR

me and dale in the dark went to watch ninja's band last night we chilled and had a few beers and enjoyed the music. there was a 50 year old couple who were dry humping near us which wasn't so pleasant lol. we moved into a club and chilled until it started to fill up. we were joined by andy and he winged me on my 1st approach. i told a brunette that she looked fantastic tonight and we had a good chat. I probable should have got her number after a while the girls went back inside. Does anyone take a girls number and text them at the end of the night to try and get a same night lay? ninja was chatting to a woman and her friend opened me and we were getting on well, she introduced me t her friend, who was a tall blonde, i sat beside her and we had plenty in common and were getting on well. I remember my hand on her leg at one point but i didn't go in for a kiss. later we hit the dance floor and i took a petite brunette's hand and started dancing with her. We danced for a good while and her friend was dancing beside us. she then randomly walked off and her friend stayed beside me lol. i though fuck it and danced with her aswell and made out with her. after a while i left her to get a drink. We all had a good night and had some good interactions.

good points
opening
banter
confident

things i can improve
kino
escalating
stating intentions
closing

Did we?

I have had some success with this but you'll always hae the risk of something shinier coming along and taking her attention. But if you have a strong interaction and leave a lasting impression it's easy to do and you can both crack on with your friends

the puas called dale aswell i got your user name mixed up with his.

lol this was sweet reading lad! you got a good thing going :)

cheers mate, we all had a great night! that's the main thing! My goals now are to show more intent and escalate more! I also want to approach more women during the day when im out any about, which is something i haven't done for a while. One day i seen a hot tall brunette with leather trousers and geek glasses. she was so hot people were turning and staring at her as she walked bye. I didn't approach because i was just in my work clothes and i felt like i was under dressed, silly i know.

I remember the days of me peacocking in my hat and cool stuff. When someone told me to ditch it and stop feeling as if I needed to rely on it, I was genuinely nervous. But you don't seem to do that so it shouldn't be a problem. Maybe you're just making excuses?

At our stage, approaching and escalating is easy; I'd go as far as saying whenever I get laid now, it all fits into place and feels simple. But our minds insist on making things hard for ourselves.

We seem to have the same motives to get instate, approach and escalate more. Why not create some goals to work towards?

yea true, i just feel i need to be more direct, sometimes i find it hard to transition into showing intent after an indirect opener. I approach alot in clubs and things are going well and i can work on closing and bringing more women home and work on day game nights. Im having fun on my nights out thats the main thing :) Do you mean setting goals, as in how many women to approach? etc.

Just do direct ones then. Or sometimes I do indirect ones but then behave in a forward manner, that seems to work. Yeah, I mean setting proper goals and stuff surrounding what we want to improve on. One of mine is to bang at least 12 girls this year lol. Will talk to you on Facebook about it