Since accidentally deleting my diary which I started writing a couple of weeks ago, I figured it'd be a good idea to log all my adventures online. I joined this site a few years ago and have been on off gaming for a while and since splitting up with my ex 2 months ago would really like to get this down.

So here goes...

Date: 31st October 2013
I went out to meet Tebbs in Oxford Street and made our journey down to Embankment, got some warm up directional approaches trying to figure out the approach, decided to go to Westfields White City. This is where I got out of my comfort zone and did alot of direct approaches, most kept walking but the few I stopped including a lovely little Norwegian and a hot as fuck English bird outside the mall, didn't go anywhere (I'll take that as a lack of experience). I hit my target of 10 direct approaches.

Date: 2nd November 2013
Went on an internet date with a bird at a bar in front of Westfields, before hand I called up a couple of my boys to get me into that chatty mood and also to sort out logistics for my birthday party. Well anyway this date went pretty well, especially as it was my first one in 2 years. I played it very well and my natural cockiness came off well. We bounced into Westfields and just had a little gander round, at this point it felt as if I was going out with a girlfriend. We made out a few times, took pics in the Apple store. I didn't end up putting my nob in her on account of having my party in an hour at this point.

Date: 7th November 2013
Decided to do the same route as the previous day with Tebbs and ended up in front of the London Eye doing about 10 rapid approaches to get the run and turn approaches down. Only a couple stopped. Walked back up to Soho and saw this petite blonde who went into the darkest alley, I was patient and waited for some light (didn't want her to think I was going to mug her). Ended up having a little chat where I was rather stuttery.

Date: 8th November 2013
Once again we were in around Oxford Street, Regents Street and Embankment, my approaches are now getting alot better. They're stopping and I'm having little chats with the birds getting rejected a couple of times but this due to my obvious lack of intent. But when the approach goes well it's clear I'm improving due to my nice little chat with a half Indian girl which went quite well but ejected when I feel like I'm running out of things to say.

Points to take and ways to improve:
Day game is definitely different to night game, you actually have to be more verbal.
I need to show more intent, more aggression I feel like I'm acting like a lost child.
Figure out how to do more diverse types of approaches which include small spaces, lone targets and pairs.

Feel free to throw me some advice, little tips which helped you improve.

Not sure what you mean exactly.

I meant it as there's more talking especially in the initial stages, with night game I felt like I could get away with not talking or showing my personality verbally

Date: 15th November 2013
Did a ton of approaches today, in the usual route.
Ten of which were in an hour, because Tebbs and I went a little too crazy.
Had some lovely little chats with 4 birds, where I can see definite improvement. My conversing is occasionally iffy, yet good at other times.
One of these sets was an absolute stunner, shit approach, but put her into place, what I've learnt is that I need to improvise a bit better with my assumptions.
After the 4 hours day gaming we went out to meet a few lads including Serendipity, Markuk, and others I cant remember the forum names of. In the 4 hours I was out I did 3 sets, one of which was winging for my boy Tebbs which he number closed. the second was some average open but the two wanted to keep talking but wasnt too into them. Finally the last set was a lovely bird from Camden whom was ioi'ing me constantly, but alas not only did I run out of shit to say, I was in that no kino day game mode.

Points to take and ways to improve:
In the day I should; stop ejecting, go for the close and work on improvisation.
But in the night I should kino.

You have to show your personality more so in night game if anything

I saw you in action tonight bud. Chasing down girls in the street. It reminded me what we were out for. And it was getting me in state just watching your enthusiasm to go for it. Don't lose that. It's part of what you are. You're doing the right thing. At your age I should have been doing the same thing. Work on the after-approach phase. Get in convo, build rapport and comfort, make a strong emotional connection with the girl. then the close is easy and it's a solid number or email not a flake. We're not looking for flakes.

As you keep doing this you will start to calibrate your game more. Remember at night, when it gets dark, women get more edgy so the game changes. But don't change what you are doing, just evaluate and adjust and you'll be there soon.

I think I am coming to silly conclusions and excuses, I believe now it doesn't matter. Just go with the flow and make it happen.

Something big for me right now is authenticity. I'm finding I need to go for sets I find attractive or there isn't too much point as I don't put my heart into it. And unless I have alot of AA to be patient instead of running around like a madman.

Cheers bud, I'm really starting to see improvement daily. Day game is where I see most big steps being made, unlike iwhen I was doing night game when I was in a long term relationship. But I'll keep pushing in both aspects and set myself some targets.

Yeah, I wouldn't mind trying a bit of day game again in London. I only did solo a few times in the summer on my lunch break. Didn't do enough approaches but of the few I did do I learned a lot. It definitely gave me more confidence. I realised being more aggressive actually made the women feel more comfortable to talk. You would think the opposite would be true. But attraction is counter intuitive. The area I did seems to have a reasonable supply of attractive women, usually tourists in the summer. It's quitter in the winter but I'm thinking as Christmas approaches it's gonna start getting busy there again. Would be interesting to try again with wings this time. I'll PM you.

Have a watch of this: day game analysis | Search Results | Krauser's PUA Adventure

The guy goes in his head at one point and almost loses it but he manages to recover. You see how hot that girl is. That's about the level of looks I'm looking to stop in day game. The ones you get that horrible sinking feeling if you don't approach. Nick Krauser calls it "DNA pull".

Date: 16th November 2013
After a long day of training, went out to meet Tebbs and another lad, the new lad went to do some approaches himself and we ended up losing him. I ended up doing 4 or 5 approaches all direct and although getting frustrated with not being able to continue conversation, they are stopping everytime.

Points to take and ways to improve:
Approaches stop everytime.
Work on all previously highlighted points.