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Default 21-09-2013, 01:05 AM

Down the local town tonight again (Friday 21/9/13).

I'm treating these local nights as 'getting used to being social nights'. Out with my mates and chatting to women as an incidental thing rather than the objective of the night. It takes the pressure off a lot.

After my midweek escapades travelling, working and shagging hookers I felt a bit drained but still saw plenty of women tonight who got my motor running.

First bar - met a few blokes I hadn't talked to before and had good convos with them. We shook hands at the end, good interactions and connections made.

First bar said hello to a bunch of 5 girls who didn't respond. I think I spoke too quietly...timid.

Second bar - lot's of young girls, some really hot, surrounded by guys. I didn't open any of them individually or in sets.

I got the 'too old' thing in my head again. Although the truth is I've never had a bad response when I've actually talked to younger women.

Third bar - eventually opened a 5 set of women. I started talking to one who was, in looks, somewhere between the foxy one I was after in the first place and the ugliest one of the group.

They very quickly guided me toward the ugly one cause she was Scottish like me and I forced myself to have a 10 min convo with her. The others fucked off somewhere to leave us alone.

My heart wasn't in it. I don't think hers was either tbh. Being born in the same country does not mean you will have any chemistry!

One woman I saw that I thought was really hot was dancing and kept kissing her female friend on the lips.

It was making me hot. I had some EC with her but did fuck all about it. Her friend was quite sexy too. They were with two guys but realised later it wasn't their boyfriends (never assume).

There were a lot of opportunities in this bar. There were a lot of good looking guys in there but they didn't seem to have much clue to be honest on how to chase these women down.

I'm quite keen to go back there again and try harder, at least until I get a fair few rejections.


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Default 21-09-2013, 02:58 PM

On reflection, some points I noted from last night..

In my head too much - the 'age gap' excuse came up - I then tried to rationalise it which got me even more in my head. I didn't notice I was doing it at the time.

Too much alcohol - Made it easier to approach eventually but reduced my ability to concentrate in convo.

For example I forgot the girls name immediately after she told me. Then I asked again and forgot it again.

Talking constantly without leaving gaps and giving too much detail.

Didn't ask open questions.

Didn't close.

On the positive side tho I got on well with guys I spoke to. Just more relaxed I guess.


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Default 21-09-2013, 08:23 PM

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The first one was pretty mechanical and awkward (I've had a very very long dry spell) but the second one went much better and we connected a bit.
I should add that I liked the second woman, who was of Eastern European origin.

I told her she was beautiful, for which she said thank you. I left her a pack of cigarettes and 50 Euros extra.

I'm a human being and so is she after all.

She wouldn't give me her number tho.


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Default 05-10-2013, 01:46 AM

Out tonight local. I'm just hanging with mates, relaxing, having a drink and being social.

In the startoff bar I get talking to this older woman. She interviews me...where you from, where you live , what's your name, what you do, etc.

I answer all this and just keep a smiling face. For an older woman she was quite sexy. But she was with someone.

Headed to another bar with mates. At some point I thought fuck it I'm going on a tour of the bar cause I was getting bored sitting at our table.

First good looking babe I see on my travels I stop for a chat with her. It was going real good. After a couple of minutes she says "this is my husband" and directs me to a stocky good looking bloke standing behind me . I had a chat with him, we shake hands and I move on.

After chatting a few young girls at the bar I approach a group of three women at a table and break into that set. They seem surprised. One of them is keen to talk so we get into a convo for 5 mins.

This girl is very sexy and cute. I'm aroused just talking to her. She's starting a new job on Monday and this is her leaving do. I give her advice on her new job. I'm not looking to pull her just being social. I would like to talk to this girl again but for some strange reason I forget to NC. Why am I doing this.

I move on. I get talking to three guys who seem a bit frustrated. I say to them "why don't you just enjoy yourselves" and they agree to do that.

The music is good and I think about finding some girl to dance but it doesn't feel busy enough so I don't. No one is dancing.

Me and mates head to another bar. There I get a bad response from three chicks, one who I was keen on. Not sure why, I think it was my fault being too pushy. I feel the sting of rejection. But a woman standing near me starts talking to me and saying what bitches they are. I get the feeling I want to fuck this woman. But again I don't close. We have a good bitch and I think about kissing her for a moment but don't.

By this time the drinking I've been doing all night is kicking in big time and I'm feeling tired, we go out and have some banter with some girls outside the bar then jump in a taxi to get home.


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Default 12-10-2013, 01:10 AM

Out local tonight after returning from my trip abroad. Just to catch up with my mates really. A lot of hot little chicks floating around though. A guy dropped his trousers in the bar, got ejected, then got let back in. The woman he was with was pretty hot too.

With this chest infection I've been carrying, being ill, totally knackered and all the stuff I had to deal with last week it was a bit of a non-starter for me PU wise. I had no energy. But I'll post a summary of what happened last week. It's an interesting story.


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Default 13-10-2013, 06:52 PM

last week 6-11 Oct

Realise I'm coming down with illness at the weekend but need to travel abroad. I load up on pills.

I get through Monday ok and go to bed early.

On Tuesday I'm feeling worse and I'm also getting an allergic reaction to the nicotine patches, so I buy cigs. The chemist I go to for medicine sells me a pile of pills and makes me throw the cigs in the bin. I end up buying more cigs later. By the evening I'm going stir crazy so I head to a dive bar I know nearby. It's quite lively and I end up talking to quite a few people. The drink is mixing with the pills and I feel almost stoned.

A DJ starts up at 11 and I end up on the dance floor. In the smoking room I talk to a couple of Australian girls and also a German woman. We have good convos. I notice that after I open them the other guys there start joining in. Ends up like 5-way bi-lingual convo that I can't follow (I see the point now why you need to isolate). I'm not caring anyway by this time. I end up back on the dance floor. I'm enjoying myself and forgetting about being ill.

It's too warm so I remove my jacket. At some point later I realise I've been duped and the jacket is gone with mobiles and plastic on-board.

I go to the police station to report the theft and almost get myself arrested by a rather aggressive cop.

I end up drowning my sorrows in a late night restaurant until 5 talking to the owner and his girlfriend who are still there.

Next day I spend most of the time phoning around to block the plastic and phones.


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Default 19-10-2013, 02:51 AM

Friday - local night again.

My mate gave me a lecture tonight about why I shouldn't approach the local women.

His reasoning was that you need to be: a) famous, like a footballer or actor, b) rich or c) very good looking or all of the above.

He's not looking for a woman cause he's too busy.

So with this mind fuck I set out and got blown out on my first approach and got right up in my head. I started to believe him.

Then I got pissed and did nothing very PUA at all. It was a very chode night.

I could see opportunities all around me but felt they just weren't for the likes of me. Oh dear.

It just convinced me I need to branch out more and get a wing.


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Default 19-10-2013, 03:47 AM

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Friday - local night again.

My mate gave me a lecture tonight about why I shouldn't approach the local women.

His reasoning was that you need to be: a) famous, like a footballer or actor, b) rich or c) very good looking or all of the above.

He's not looking for a woman cause he's too busy.

So with this mind fuck I set out and got blown out on my first approach and got right up in my head. I started to believe him.

Then I got pissed and did nothing very PUA at all. It was a very chode night.

I could see opportunities all around me but felt they just weren't for the likes of me. Oh dear.

It just convinced me I need to branch out more and get a wing.
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Default 19-10-2013, 09:19 AM

Thanks man. The blowout wasn't even so much a blowout. I asked a girl standing next to me at the bar how she was doing and she answered 'good thanks' then I couldn't think of anything more to say. It was just one of those nights.

Not making excuses but I've been ill for two weeks which probably didn't help. My energy is low. I'll be back!


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Default 26-10-2013, 10:47 PM

Last night (Friday 25th Oct)

A last minute hastily arranged meet of a few London / Manchester members of the forum: Sugarspin, Me, Stein, D!ce and MarkUK.

In a word EPIC. The night was a great laugh from beginning to end and educational for me as well. I couldn't express it in any detail but we all talked about pickup stuff and just about anything and everything else.

I get to the meetup venue first thinking "if nobody turns up tonight after all this I'll go crazy". But then everyone started arriving and it all goes great. All good guys.

There was a bit of game later in the night at a second bar some of us went to, but I was getting wobbly with booze and tiredness by then. Even so I learned a lot winging Stein and D!ce. It was a completely different experience to my normal nights out locally where I don't have wings. Realising I need to do more going out with wings to learn and have fun. Next time I would watch my drink intake so I could converse better.

After a while I need to get home unfortunately because I don't live in London.

I can't get a taxi for love nor money. There are convoys of them streaming towards me down the strand but none for hire.

I end up in a wrickshaw on the way to St Pancras station. Basically we're on a tricycle taking on the might of London small hours traffic. Actually it was cool..open air just seeing the city from a different angle. Had some good banter with the driver (rider?). I couldn't believe how quick he got me there (they can take shortcuts taxis can't).

I had to wait an hour for a train and went for a walk to pass the time. I passed a burger king and these two young guys and a girl waved at me from inside as I passed by the window. I went in and went over and shook hands and we had a bit of friendly banter. They wanted me to stay and talk but I told them I needed food and had a train to catch. The chick was very hot. That's probably why I went over.

Wolfed the food down on my way back to the station. The walk and food sobered me up a bit.

When I got there a blonde girl appeared. She was on her mobile having what sounded like a spat with someone, her boyfriend I reckon. She was attractive with amazingly long legs so I said hi and was about to offer her a chip, then realised I had just finished them. She half looked at me and said hi back in not too friendly sounding tone. I then added "you've got very long legs". She wandered back inside the station without responding. I caught her at a bad time I think.

A bunch of girls and guys were trying to get taxis but they seemed to be short of cash. These guys had obviously pulled and the taxi fiasco was presenting an early opportunity for LMR from the girls. The girls all seemed to want to go home in a separate taxi and the guys were panicking a bit like "fuck no..no, not part of the plan bitches" (thinking of all the drinks they paid for maybe). I just watched, wondered if I could jump in the girls taxi and go back to their place haha. I went for my train.

Got my train and had a convo with a cool young couple who were travelling to the airport for a holiday night flight to Amsterdam.

Got off train and the guy in front of me was staggering so bad up my road I don't know how the fuck he had made it home. I had started to sober up by then.

A great night had by all.

We'll have more of these nights. Come along if you possibly can it's ace.

P.S. kudos to D!ce for coming to the night and being great company while staying sober as a judge the whole time. I don't think I could have managed that haha.

And thanks to all the guys who came along to make a great night of it. Looking forward to the next one!


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