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Default Field Report 12/02/09 - Not really an interesting report but my first one - 13-02-2009, 10:19 AM

Hi All,

Well I went out yesterday as promised. But there was a major change. Due to meet my friends at 10:30pm I thought ah to hell with it so I rushed over to my nearest big shopping centre and into Claire's Accessories. (Yeh I know I felt stuipd too).

Got my ear pierced, so there it's done, the only thing thats a bit of a problem is they said its got to stay in 6 weeks before I can change it, really though with work I need to get a skin colour one or something really subtle so it doesnt stand out. Feel a bit like a muppet on the basis that the girl that done the piercing was quite cute and when I told her I wasn't sure if it would suit me she started chucking compliments my way and then when it was done she was still throwing me compliments so I thought after leaving and sitting im my car "you mug she was hitting on you" - Should've woken up and seen that coming and got something out of it... Kicking myself and learning point 1 - to be observant.

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So I met up with a friend at his house waiting for the others to arrive and the first thing he said was "Bruv what the f*** have you done to yourself" I started to get worried until he pointed out he meant that it was actually a nice touch. And throughout the night I had about 5 people comment on the stud which was just a normal diamond.

So in the club... (I think I'm going to have to read some posts on club game) The music in some areas was so loud I couldn't hear myself think so I found the spots where it wasn't so loud and upon entering and seeing my mates girlfriend (shes about a 7) and all of her friends that she had bought along (various 7's nothing amazing) I immeadiately took the gf's arm and one of her friends arms and linked with mine, said "Just go with it, its just for a few minutes". I knew the gf so no issues there and her friend did just go with it. I walked a lap of the club with these two on my arm, looking around and smiling like life was at its peak. I noticed a few heads turn and got some looks from guys that just made me smile more LOL...

Anyways, after that... well i'm a fair dancer (popping, crip-walking) I hit one of the smaller dance areas to battle some friends and quite frankly warm up as it was snowing last night. Took a breather to get some water and got opened by 2 girls asking about my trainers and a leather wristband I had on . Spoke to them about random stuff for a few mins then they went off to dance - realised at that point "I'm meant to be running routines WTF was that" obviously they got bored and I didn't realise. (repeat of learning point 1 ).

I carried on having a good time and by about 2am I realised I actually hadn't even attempted to open anyone.

I now have to apologise because I cheated, I had some promoters cards from a friend who is a DJ at the club, I went up to a few 5 sets and opened them using the cards used the opener of...

"Guys I need your opinion on something, people that go clubbing and take up a dancefloor with breakdancing and popping and all that stuff, losers or cool guys?"

I was a bit of a pussy and ejected on the few that said "losers" but the others that said it was cool, I handed them a promo card and they were asking questions about our upcoming night and I got speaking to a few people that approached me later in the night watching us all dance.

I didn't get any numbers, didnt get anything further but I learned that social proofing does a LOT. I walked around that club with the girls at the start and it took me about 5minutes. I walked around there alone at 3am and it took me the best part of 20minutes being stopped every few paces by people saying "you're cool" etc.

A learning experience but not for the right reasons I feel... ANYWAY todays another day.

Thanks for reading
Ambitious
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Default 13-02-2009, 02:43 PM

Ambitious,

Congratulations!!

Look you were out and doing your own thing, you were comfortable in your own skin and acting authentic.

The fact that you noticed girls hitting on you is a start and a good one at that, next time you will be more aware of this and be able to respond in kind..

Never apologise for your actions this is the same as placating... there is no such thing as cheating you went into sets and used an opinion opener and used all the resources you had to hand.

Keep up the good work.

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Default 13-02-2009, 02:48 PM

Yes. You are doing them a favor, not the other way around.
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Default 13-02-2009, 04:11 PM

While I don't agree that being modest isn't a good thing. I do think you did pretty well and this is a decent first FR. You were obviously nervous but you didn't go AFC. Though your not a PUA yet (most of us arn't) your getting there, you've taken your first steps.

Plus congrats on the earing, I did the same as you with my labret lip piercing. I decided on the train home I wanted it done and just went and got it, surprised everyone and its great for augmenting your image. Also a bit of sparkle/shine is good for attracting attention.
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Default 13-02-2009, 07:03 PM

Nobody here has a prince albert?
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Default 14-02-2009, 11:49 AM

Not that I know of, why do you ask?
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