First field report - Canadian woman wasn't as hard as I was expecting...
 

So decided to venture out a little, went to London (400+ miles away). Met a Canadian girl there with her dad. Didn't really expect too much of the meeting but I was totally wrong, she opened up to me and we communicated like we'd known each other for years. She said that most guys call her a "biddy" which apparently means a 'hot girl' so I took the piss a little saying that normally where I'm from we'd say biddy when referring to and old person "get the old biddy out of the way!" ETC.... It was fun, she loves to argue and we made such a great connection. Both her and her dad told me emotional stories about how the mother left them and now how her dad has terminal cancer, very moving.
I felt compelled to hang out with them through-out the weekend, severely limiting my chances with others but there was just something about her. Fuck close was simple.
Now we email nearly every day, 300 emails in less than 3 weeks maaan! She's now agreeing with most things I say, she's constant referral to "what she'll do to me when she comes back" (during the summer) etc..
I'm a bit lost for what to do :/ she is a beautiful 8 and she is a rarity as she looks possibly even better without make-up. Damn, well I'll figure that one out!

Now there's a girl I got on Facebook that I thought would be a good one to practice my online stuff with, she's a 10 and she knows it. Sent good DHV messages maybe a month ago, no reply. Then she posts a few days ago about some pain. So I kinda took this as a way in, telling her what was likely wrong. She sobbed her heart out to me, she was saying sorry every 2 minutes for been a whimp... At that stage I noticed her possibly unintentional DLV's and picked her up a bit. I got her to get a doctors appointment and then last night she came out a little flirty saying she was lying in bed talking to me etc.. and then she's going to Edinburgh tomorrow so I told her to upload a picture of somewhere in Edinburgh and let me guess what it is. She didn't.
Now she's replying not all the time so I was thinking of waiting until thursday to contact again (when she see's the doc).
Considering we've never met before and not enough comfort has been built, would that be the right move?

What would you do in this type of situation?

I'm searching Mystery Method for some answers along with other books but it's hard to understand what to do simply because she's a 10, I've never really targeted a 10 as 'practice' before so I'd like to see it through from start to finish, no-matter the outcome...
Experience is vital.


FYI to everyone - I did go out a week ago and approached 25 women, normally in a 2 set and I did pretty well considering my goal was to chat, be fun to hang around with for a few minutes, then leave. Just experience. Ahh yeah, I got 8 numbers and only 2 flaked which I don't think is too bad.

this is a really shit field post, more like a question really. My bad! Not really the most gifted of writers.

See how it goes with both of them

have fun

see if any other avenues open up

Don't knock yourself down mate, and don't be afraid to write field reports, its helpful to others and it shows what you've learnt and how you've evolved through your experience of it all!

And yeah definitely go for both, you've not committed to anything yet so there's no harm in prospecting!

Cheers guys, I read some other field reports and kinda thought "damn I didn't exactly go into detail here!". I like both of them obviously, but the facebook girl I've been wanting to find a way in for a while now (yes I know I shouldn't but I wanted to experience the shields of 9/10's to that of a 7/8)
I've dwelled on this girl for too long so I've made up a message to send her and whatever is the outcome is final. No response = bye.
I'm hosting a seminar in Newcastle on Artificial Intelligence so I'm gonna briefly mention it plus a cocky/funny line that I've seen in another post ... I'm gonna send it at 8:30am ish so here it is:

"Let me know how it goes at the docs, be a relief to get it sorted huh? Starting my Newcastle seminar in an hour but there's nowhere decent to get food, bought a burger but not even sure its cow. Great! Did you have fun in the ginger country? :)"

Guaranteed last time I over think something with a girl. I know its not exactly a welcomed trait amongst the community. But I've changed a lot over the past 2 months so progress is what I'm after, even if its not in the 'normal' ways of the community, there's time to adapt to that.

Don't worry about what's welcomed in the community mate, what's important is that your progressing. Hit send and never regret it.

There's been some stuff I've read in books and some of it isn't really used within the community so I was completely mind fucked because I thought that these book/ tried and tested ways were like the Bible to the community.
Like I saw some post about how your facebook statuses come under scrutiny with girls shit tests. The statuses the guy posted were rubbish so I made some myself and they got a load of attention. Personally I hate facebook, don't know what you guys think about it?

UPDATE - she messaged me back, she keeps on complaining to me about her pain and how she's gonna have to stay home whilst her class go abroad as she wouldn't be able to come.
Just about to start my seminar again (not replying to her during the breaks) I finish at 1pm.
I'm stuck with escilation ... We are talking about her pain and the trip she was going to go on, not really sure if I can escalate?

A lot of people take the literature too seriously, there's no bible, just experience.
And sounds a little to close to friendzone territory for comfort, I might try ignoring her for a little bit, then be suggestive next time you chat.

It sounds like she is dictating the interaction to you. How much do you really care how much pain she is in?

D!ce; Nova

I agree with both of you 100%, this is looking like friend zoned. There was sexual hints a few days ago. I also didn't talk to her the whole of yesterday and when I sent her that message today it took her 4 minutes to reply, which is normal.
I've stopped talking to her now until 1-1:30pm and then I'll reply to her 2 messages she's sent me. (The elongated words and emotion symbols people say are signs she likes you, I don't go for that shit)

This is the biggest problem, she's is controlling the conversation which is of course not what I want. In her message I haven't looked at yet she's probably upset she isn't going on the trip so I'm just going to use something like this:
"When your feeling better I'll whisk you off to Russia, we'll do what your class is doing, just better. It'l be awesome!"